184: "I carry his memory because, with him, I am whole." — A Healed, Yet Still Broken Filipina

If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this:How do you process loss and grief?This letter is for anyone who’s lost their greatest ally and has been grieving ever since.The writer speaks to Monica Macansantos, author of Returning to My Father’s Kitchen: Essays. She expresses how her former teacher’s book gave her permission to feel what her family wouldn’t talk about: the pain of losing a loved one who was more than a parent. Her father was her greatest ally, her champion, and the inspiration behind her curiosity and creativity. The writer paints a portrait of healing that doesn’t erase the pain but, instead, carries it with her.If you’ve ever felt pressure to suppress your grief, yet longed to honor a loved one in a way that feels true to you, then this one’s for you.This concludes TFAW Project’s Letters — Holiday Edition! 🎁 Thank you for listening, and we’ll see you again for Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month in May 2026! 👋🏽🎉What can I do in the meantime?Subscribe for off-season content!🗓 Find out when our next Family Potluck event will be! (Tentative date: March 27, 2026)✍🏽 When you subscribe, you can also submit a letter or respond to a published one, anonymously! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe