19. Yes, Daddy! The appeal of Big little dynamics with Bear Phillips

We welcome Bear Phillips back to The Kinky Coffee Break for this episode on Big/little dynamics.    We cover quite some ground here, starting with what these dynamics are about and some of the common misconceptions around them. We discuss the benefits of age play for both the little and the Big, and what’s needed to support this kind of play in terms of skills, boundaries, and integration. I am very interested in this topic, so it was a delight to get into it with Bear.    Bear Phillips (he/ him) is a poly-sexual, polyamorous, and kinky-slut by night, and a trauma-informed bodyworker and a sex & love coach by day. In his coaching with men, he works with questions of masculinity and how patriarchy impacts our ability to have meaningful and authentic relationships. Bear has been involved in various forms of therapy and personal development for more than half his life, having recently completed the *Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training* with Gabor Maté.  Edited by Bear Phillips & Ellie Rose, “DADDY!” The Healing Power of Big/little Play: An Anthology. On the transformative potential of inner-child work, role-play and conscious kink, is now available for Kindle here: https://amzn.eu/d/02OpxxJ4 or as a paperback here: https://amzn.eu/d/03SrCFwN. Enjoy! You can find Bear at www.bearphillips.co.uk or substack: @bearphillips1 / bearphillips1.substack.com/. He’s also on IG: @bear_phillips / instagram.com/bear_phillips/ and FB: facebook.com/bearphillipsUK.  You can check out the rest of my work at www.pleasurerebels.com and https://linktr.ee/pleasurerebels.