19- Conversations on Love, Power, and the Invisible Work of Relationships

Send a DM to Angela directly! Share your comments, feedback and feels. Many of us grew up with unspoken rules about relationships:Don’t make things harder.Don’t ask too many questions.Don’t rock the boat.But those rules often shape our marriages, families, and identities in ways we don’t fully understand.On The Questions We Weren’t Supposed to Ask, therapist and relationship coach Angela Tam explores the hidden systems inside relationships—from emotional labor and mental load to gender expectations, power dynamics, and family roles.Through storytelling, reflection, and conversations about relational healing, this podcast invites listeners to look more honestly at the patterns we’ve inherited and imagine new ways of sharing responsibility, care, and leadership in love.Here is the substack article link: https://substack.com/home/post/p-190668831 Come follow me on instagram @MentalLoadCoach and subscribe to my newsletter here. Schedule a free consult with me for my group coaching programs:1) If you are the primary mental load carrier, click here2) if you are the partner of the mental load owner, click here