19. What they don't tell you about self-devotion

In today's episode, I go into something nobody tells you about self-devotion and what it actually feels like when you start putting yourself first. Self-devotion isn’t bubble baths, crystals, or surface-level “self-love.” It’s deeper, at times grittier, the raw, heartbreaking, while also liberating journey of finally choosing you first, no matter who it disappoints.In this episode, I riff on:Why self-devotion feels more like heartbreak than peace and rainbows at firstThe difference between self-care, self-love, and true self-devotionHow devotion forces you to raise your standards and piss people offWhy momentum doesn’t come from hustling, it comes from energy moving youThe heartbreak of saying no to clients, contracts, friendships, and relationships that no longer alignPower leaks vs. power holding and how to stop outsourcing your powerReflection questions to filter every decision through: Who do I love more? Me or them?If this cracked something open in you, don’t keep it to yourself. You already know what to do:Share this episode with your BFF who needs this convoLeave me a review, it means the world and helps more women find this workWhen you want to drop deeper into your body to support your self-devotion, grab the meditation bundle SOULSYNCSOULSYNC MEDITATION Hit me on Instagram Instagram with your takeaways, aha moments, or just to tell me you’re in the self-devotion trenches too!