191: "What Do You Do?" - Answering as a Nurse Coach

In this episode, Shelby and Laura get real about one of the most awkward questions for new nurse coaches: “What do you do?” They unpack why this question can trigger so much internal resistance, how to move through early identity wobble, and what makes a response truly land. Through honest stories, practical tips, and encouragement, they help you feel more grounded and confident in your unique nurse coaching journey.Key Takeaways:You’re not alone—it’s easier with a partner in the journey.The early days of being a nurse coach can feel confusing and vulnerable.Ditch the credentials; lead with who you help and how.Make your answer compelling enough to invite curiosity.Practice saying it out loud until it feels natural.Networking isn’t about impressing—it’s about connecting.Awkward convos are part of the process. Embrace the cringe.Stay open to “divine appointments”—you never know who’s listening.Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction and the Value of Collaboration 02:01 – Navigating the Challenges of Being a New Nurse Coach 07:11 – Crafting Your Response: What Not to Do 13:34 – How to Answer 'What Do You Do?' with Clarity and Curiosity 19:02 – Building Confidence in Your Coaching Identity 21:20 – Facing the Discomfort of Networking 24:49 – Why Volume of Conversations Matters 26:12 – Practice Makes Peaceful 30:23 – Normalizing the Cringe 32:28 – Divine Appointments and Meaningful Conversations 36:06 – Taking the Focus Off YourselfMentioned in this episode:Nurse Coach Residencyhttps://www.nurselifecoachacademy.com/nurse-coach-residency