196: It Took Me 40 Years to Learn How to Measure Success

What happens when you hit every goal you set and still feel like something is off? In this episode of Be The Leader, Jeramiah Solven turns 40 and takes apart the way he measured success for two decades — achievement after achievement, each one supposed to fill a hole that only got bigger. As Seneca put it, life is long if you know how to use it.Jeramiah walks through the Conquer Wheel of Life, the nine-dimension framework he has used since 2013 and refined through Ranger Regiment commands and years of coaching high performers: health and fitness, finances, friends and family, romance, spirituality, business and career, wisdom and personal growth, the art of living, and materialism. For each one he gives the single lesson he never wants to forget, with the stories that taught it — the operation that broke him, the mentor who put him back together, the boy and the puzzle, and the funeral test he uses to decide what actually matters.The trap he names is the one most high achievers never see: achievement in your strong areas masks the areas you are neglecting. Chasing more in business can hide the fact that you are failing in your marriage. Whether you are 30, 40, or 50 and winning on paper while something underneath feels off, this episode gives you a way to grade every area honestly and fix the flat spoke that is slowing everything else down.Take the free Conquer Wheel of Life Audit: https://conquer-wheel-of-life.netlify.app