#198: Falling Out of Love or Just Disconnected? How to Tell and What to Do

Ask Us A QuestionDo you ever hear people say, “We just fell out of love”? Perhaps you’ve even said it yourself. It’s easy to believe that love simply fades when life gets busy or tough. But here’s the truth: it’s a myth. Love doesn’t just slip away; it evolves. And understanding that evolution is the key to rekindling your relationship.Welcome to Love Shack Live—the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads. If you’re facing daily conflicts, growing emotional distance, or wondering if it’s even possible to rebuild that deep connection, this show is for you. I’m Staci Bartley, relationship mentor, and I’m joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our daughter Brooke. Together, we guide you through what it takes to not only stay in love but thrive.Today’s Big Question: Does love really fade over time, or is something else happening beneath the surface?By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why love doesn’t disappear—it transforms. We’ll walk you through the steps you can take to reignite the connection with your partner right now—no waiting necessary. Maybe you’ve been waiting for love to return on its own. Today, we’ll show you how intentional actions can bring it back.Curious? You should be. The answer might surprise you—stay with us.Chapters:00:00 Debunking the Myth of Falling Out of Love01:48 Understanding the Ebb and Flow of Love13:10 The Holy Shit Moment: Realizing Imperfections19:42 Embracing Differences for Growth27:47 Embracing the Cycle of Love29:57 Navigating Relationship Challenges32:24 Rediscovering Connection and Intimacy36:37 The Power of Vulnerability41:33 Practical Steps to Reignite Love51:50 Reflecting on Love and Growth54:01 Closing Thoughts and ResourcesReady to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.