#198 Now I'm Upset

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We explore labels, gender non-binary and why your friends ain’t really your friends; We shout out your Black male homies who unintentionally erase the fvck out of you while you’re fvcking sitting right the fvck there; And we revisit our discussion on disability and dating. This week’s hot list: We kicked SXSW 2019’s ass, working and relationships and disability, J. is full of fun facts, gendered terms (“lady”, etc.), do your friends respect your pronouns? “Inclusivity” at the expense of Black women, does anybody acknowledge the work of Black women as work? And mad other sh!t. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS SAVE THE DATE #PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pm Details to come NOTES & EXTRA TEA Listen to “Where Are The Podcast Blaccents?” panel organized by Sam Ridell for SXSW 2019: https://soundcloud.com/officialsxsw/sxsw-2019-where-are-the-podcast-blaccents A few podcast resources: Inner Hoe Uprising 54 Genders or none: https://soundcloud.com/search?q=54%20genders%20or%20none Agender Hoe in the Army: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/an-agender-hoe-in-the-army-robisode-1 Hoes Like to be courted: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/hoes-that-like-to-be-courted Also Check out Marsha’s Plate podcast and QueerWOC: The Podcast for more conversations about gender Watch The Grapevine’s “Culture Vultures” episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubjud6LZk8c Check out Vilissa Thompson’s (@VilissaThompson) twitter thread on ableism & dating: https://twitter.com/VilissaThompson/status/1105508769763598337 Check out Tina’s (@nice_white_lady) twitter thread on ableism & dating: https://twitter.com/Nice_White_Lady/status/1106207362002681856 This week’s closing clip features Missy Elliot with Nicole Wray “All N My Grill”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NAyzeR3QtQ This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/