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All right, let me see, what's going on with the good sister Rashida? I'm trying to get to everybody. I'm not sure how much longer we have. What's going on with the good sister man?
It's the tap in show. First of all, I tell people what you're name, what you're for, and what you're tapping in with. So this is Shida, I'm here at Austin. I'm from Dallas, but I'm just tapping in to kinda dialogue with you a little bit about relationships, you know what I'm saying?
Because I feel like, you know, we don't understand how much influence somebody that we are, you know, so connected to influences the way that we move. You know what I mean? Influices and decisions that we make influences, you know, the respect that we get. Like I'm a little baby, fuck up.
But basically, I wanted to ask you, as far as relationship wise, on advice, on if you feel like you need to move around, or if you feel like, yeah, you, you know, so okay, so let's just say, you know, you feel like the yoke is not even. You know what I'm saying? Like, you're moving in two different directions. Do you feel like you can continue with somebody who's maybe somebody who's not saying somebody's not woke, and somebody is?
Do you feel like that would work? You know, one thing I've learned about human beings is that, you know, we've driven by what we feel. And it's not based off reason, you know, you know, even though, you know, in the essence of relationships, and you know, ancient times wasn't on the basis of love. It was on the basis of building, nation building.
And in today's time, we've sold a fairy tale, in the sense about the idea of love, in a role that it plays and marriages, you know, and this idea of love is not something that can really be lived up to in the essence of people finding it in a realistic matter. You know, the idea of the Prince Charming, and the sleeping princess, and living forever, is what a lot of people have been impression for a long time. And so I think that first you have to rewire your idea of a relationship, and what it means to you, and what the value is of two entities coming together, because I believe the point of two entities coming together is to create a third, not just in the essence of a child, but in the production of producing something even when, even when you're talking about, you know, business. So you're talking about creating a legacy or something that they should gather.
What is that thing that keeps you together? What is that thing that keeps you all bonded? Because at any time to where you no longer feeling this person, why should y'all stay together if there's not something bigger than just your feelings involved? Because feelings are up and down.
Feelings are a vibration of how we feel. It's literally a vibration. We are just fast moving molecules, and we are always moving. So the thing about that is, is that you have to find a reason bigger than just what I feel about this person, like is this true love, and is that true love?
Because there's people that can start off with relationships that they can be, what's that called when they have arranged marriages and then they learn to love each other because they learn to build love up from there. But I think that we have an idea that we want to come into relationships with the love fully blossomed in 100%. And I think that this idea is all fairy tale-based. I don't think that that's reality.
So for me, I think that for one, you have to find somebody, you know, when you say somebody being woke another person not being like, there's no one level of woke. You know, so that idea that this person is walking, you know, everybody's woke to something. Everybody's aware of something because woke just means aware. So I want to kill that stigma that one person is just woken and not, oh, you know about the system that he was and then other person is asleep to it.
Because one person is going to be doing more work than the actual person that considers themselves woke. And so like even that idea dangerous is to a person classified themselves as, oh, I'm woke and they're not because you know something that you think that they don't know. You know, and so my whole idea is, are you finding someone that is righteous? Like you find someone that is good?
Are you finding someone that you can build with? Are you finding someone that is helping add to the collective entity of change for, you know, the Black Nation? And so it's very important that when we create our list of the reasons that we get together, because these reasons are the things that are going to drive our reason as far as, oh, that's why we get together. It's not because just because, and here's the old thing is that I believe, and this is, you can take it, you know, anybody can take it out of it.
So I believe that people should find other people when they're 100% within themselves first. Because I think a lot of times we're seeking people to complete what we're missing, you know? And in that essence, I think it's dangerous because I don't think anybody can actually feel up what we're missing because then they're going to need to maintain that. So anytime they're feeling low, who's going to help them?
And so like that's even a dangerous thing. I think that when people get into 100% within themselves, that's when they should come together, because that's when they're going to do what's the best for themselves. That's when they're going to find the best person for themselves. But when you're low, you might not even, you might not be at 100, you're going to find somebody to just feel and make you feel better.
Not even somebody that may be the best for your future, but when you 100%, you know what I mean? Only people that you, that's going to add into your life is other people that's 100 that you can add on too. If you got a table that's full, you know what I mean? And you just a potluck, and you taught everybody else who come in and you'll bring something to the table.
And this person, you know, somebody show up and they bring in the same dish as everybody else and they're not bringing anything new to the table, then you don't need them there. It's not until they're eight, like, no, what? I brought something to the table. Cool, now you bring value here, let's add you in.
But that's when you start to find people based off real quality is when you're 100% when you don't need anybody, that's when you find things that you really need. You know what I mean? When you don't need nobody, what you find what you need. You know what I mean?
Instead, people are, they're 50% self, they're 40% self. And then they're trying to find people to fill that up. You know what I mean? And so a lot of times we're afraid to be alone.
We're afraid to be by ourselves. We're afraid to, you know, a lot of people are afraid because they don't want to spend too much time thinking. They don't want to spend too much time having to love themselves. They don't want to spend too much time having to be that person that take care of themselves first.
Because if you don't know how to take care of yourself, how do you know somebody else is taking care of you properly? But if you learn to take care of yourself 100,000%, then you know if somebody else is taking care of you correctly. You've done it for yourself, all right. So everybody said, even if they stop taking care of you properly, you still sovereign in love.
You really positive you sovereign in love. Nobody's supposed to go in and play with you. But we treat our partners like they the government. And then when the government shut down, people running around, you panic it.
It's like no, it's supposed to sound your best interest. I feel like a lot of people don't look at it as a partnership. You know what I mean? It should be a partnership.
It should be. You come in where you're coming. I'm coming with what I'm coming with. We're agreeing to go together, no matter where I am, no matter where you are.
And you know if I need to stop it, help you. If you need to stop it, help me. You know what I'm saying? You keep your paths separate, but you're walking them together.
And I feel like that would help a lot of people to feel like, you know, some people feel like they have to give up this for that or give up, you know, whatever it is in their journey. Like I feel like a lot of relationships don't respect each other's journey. And understand that everybody has a path. Everybody has a calling.
Everybody has something that they put on this earth to do. And if that person is interfering with that, then you know, I don't feel like that's a partnership. Yeah, I mean, you know, we had a dangerous point, I think, in society, you know, as far as, there's a grave imbalance between masculinity and femininity. You know, and then there's, there's a dangerous one of the things that drive us, because you have to understand that for one business and our society is completely unnatural.
So most of the things that we do are unnatural. So that when you have two people engaged in unnatural activities, both of them things are going against our nature. And so even our will in the things that we create our dreams and surround our dreams around, these are not natural things that exist within nature. So when you find somebody that you want to understand your dream and your idea of what you've cultivated based on the mindset that you have, because you grew up in America, you grew up in East States, you grew up in society, it's a blessing when you find somebody that understands you, because it means that even within this program, within this paradigm, they understand your dream, even though it's cultivated in an unnatural sense in the way I put it, because what would be more natural- Because they could have just grew up in a different way where they seek things differently, both of us are different.
I believe that our dream, because what our dreams, our dreams is our world. That's that time when we go into darkness of our minds and we get to enjoy the world within. But when we wake up, that's when we share in a collective consciousness. Yeah, I mean, everybody is adding to bits of this world, but not everybody is the same, not everybody think or view the same.
So when it comes to the concept- Yeah, those dreams are the things that I think, not that you lack, I think that the greatest joy of any human being is production. Being able to produce that which is in the mind. That like when you're able to produce your thoughts and go from idea to fruition, it makes you feel alive because you are your vibrating things into existence. So men and women enjoy that all the same.
You know, women being able to nurture ideas, to nurture genius to produce that potential and to bring it out. That's a genuine natural quality of a woman. Man, being able to produce his big ideas and bring him into reality and have some measure of power. That's a natural construct of masculinity for men.
And but when they come together, they then become a powerhouse. They become a force that can't be unstoppable because there's a lot of things that, yeah, and you know, you can use Farrakhan, Khadija, you can use Obama, Michelle is like, I believe you picked the right woman, you picked the right destiny, right? So, and in today's time, it's even more. Great mind.
Yeah, yeah. I got a couple of them. And today's time is kind of dangerous though because we live in a world where we get option fatigue, decision fatigue rather, because we have so many options that make us make even wrong decisions. And so what ended up happening is, even while we're consuming content, we're not thinking, we have to remember, while we're consuming, we're not thinking, we're distracting.
We distract it. And so by the time we go through our days and we're deciding who we want to be with, we're making the wrong decisions because we only have a finite amount of energy towards the right decision-making. We either get tired and we don't make a decision or we make the wrong decision. In a world where there's less distractions, because today our distractions are more detailed and luxurized than ever.
Like we are the generational more distractions than any other generation before. So it's much harder for us to make the correct decision, so we either make a no decision or the wrong decision. You know what I mean? And so that's where we see a plan now.
So I believe that in order for a person to make the correct decision, they have to be within their nature, they have to be undistracted, they have to have that focus. So the decision they make will be the best one for them, not one that they're making just because, oh, I'm kind of tired of trying to pick, I'm tired of trying to find the right person. That's not when you make a decision. You make a decision when you add 100% because that's when you're gonna make the best quality of decisions for your life, because that's when you are thinking at your best.
Give me one second. That's best. So I'm starting to show. You're pulling out Dr.
Keats for the night. Okay. So I'm starting to show called Black Dollars, Eric Austin. And what I'm gonna be doing is basically just sit it down with people such as yourself or anybody, just anybody of color that is doing anything of substance.
So I wanna talk to you, if you make the, I always tell people there's so many different things that we can do, but I feel like certain things are highlighted more than others. I used to rent cars, so I meet so many different people. And I met a millionaire that, the toilet paper seat, the seats that you put over the toilet paper, he makes those. He makes the dispensers.
He makes small things that we can do as people. It's not just, I wanna be this and I wanna be that. Yeah, we want those sexy things. You gotta find those details.
There's so many little minute things that you can just walk around when you're at the grocery store and be like, but nobody wants to be a zipper salesman. Nobody wants to see a button, you saw a plastic top. Even though they were looking at it. It's wide open for us.
It's the lane is wide open for us for every day. So I just want people to be walking around Walmart or walking around where every they're going and looking at small things and looking, I wonder who makes these lines, you know, who makes these end tables? It's so many small things and opportunities are just there, but I just wanna interview people and have them sit down and talk about what got them to where they are. You know, we got to feel like that's the biggest part of being successful is actually acting on your words.
And there's so many people that wanna do stuff and when you actually sit down and do it and see the fruits of your labor, it's a beautiful thing. And it's so inspiring, you know, just to see it, you know, so I just wanna, and as well as get gay myself, you know, I'm trying to learn, I'm trying to, you know, about one minute left. Okay, I'm trying to figure out my calling in, you know, that's what I'm doing. So black dollars is coming.
Well, I appreciate you. And in the spirit, make sure y'all follow the good sister, Rashida, first of all, she came to the event. She took from a photograph, she did videography woman and he was in Houston, but today it was amazing. So definitely tap in.
Black dollars do matter, hired a sister, him talking about black dollar do matter, make sure you go on my website and buy something. Yeah, I'm gonna give you a call. Shageless plug. But look, I got about 30 seconds left.
Thank you. This was an amazing tap in show. You put out Dr. Keys.
I don't always put out Dr. Keys. I'll be trying to do it sometimes. I appreciate you.
Thank you, Tom. Every since I was younger. Yeah, I mean, I've always had amazing relationship with my sister so myself. So I don't mind giving it from time to time.
I just don't wanna exceed my experience. Right, I get what you're saying. But hey, you know, it'd be like that. Thank you.
See y'all later. Peace.