2.3 What Are Intimacy Wounds?

So intimacy wounds, what TF are they and why are they important?  How do we heal them through the body? Most of our suffering in relationships is set up by a) our natural and healthy desire to heal ourselves and b) reaching outside of ourselves to do that. Ideally, we do heal in relationships, but often we're unable to create relationships that heal because we're not aware of how intimacy wounds and the subsequent protective relationship strategies (held like scripts or templates of disconnection in the body) are contributing to the unconscious re-creation and re-enactment of them. Our protective strategies often work AGAINST what we most desire in our hearts and on the soul level, which is to be seen, felt, heard, and deeply connected to. Creating spiritual partnerships, in particular, relationships that heal, is about being responsible and taking ownership for the energy YOU bring into a dynamic.  We can't do that if we don't know what we're doing if we're not aware. In this episode of the podcast, I go into detail about how intimacy wounds form, as well as how and what's required to heal them. I share from my own experience as well as offer an example of (TADA!) the divine gifts and energetic leadership waiting to be alchemized underneath the wounds. What I want you to know today is that your true capacity for intimacy is much deeper than you believe it to be, and that it's in THERE.  It's dormant inside.  It's your baseline.  It's something you can re-member through the healing process.  Complete, fulfilled love already exists inside of you. I also believe wholeheartedly that healing intimacy wounds changes not only the energetics of our closest relationships as well as the energetics of how we interrelate with one another in the bigger collective picture. Can you feel the energetic ripple? Explore my 9-month, intimacy and integrity accelerator, the SOVEREIGN Metabody:  https://ishavela.com/sovereign/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Explore my 3 and 6-month mentorship packages for 1:1 somatic intimacy alchemy to break through intimacy impasses and deepen the connection in their relationships: http://ishavela.com/devotion/   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas