(2/4) Parenting Through Bullying: How to Support Your Child & Break the Cycle | ft. NIE Bernard Mackenzie

In this follow-up episode of Not Your Old Uncle, we turn the spotlight on parents of bullying victims — exploring the emotional impact, long-term consequences, and how to guide your child toward healing. 🎙️ Guest: Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at NIE Wellness Centre Singapore, joins Alvin for an open and practical conversation on: - How to spot hidden signs your child is being bullied - Building trust so your child feels safe to share - Why some bullies were once victims themselves - Restorative justice — what it is and when it works - The role of schools, parents, and the community in prevention If you’re a parent, educator, or simply want to understand the realities of bullying in Singapore, this episode is filled with strategies, empathy, and relatable stories. 🔔 Subscribe for more midlife conversations on parenting, relationships, wellness, and personal growth. 🧠 Note: This podcast episode is not sponsored by NIE Wellness Centre. Opinions are solely those of the speakers. This discussion is for general information only and is not a substitute for personal counselling or mental health advice. Please seek professional help for individual concerns. 📩 Learn more about NIE Wellness Centre counselling support: https://www.ntu.edu.sg/nie/about-us/campus-facilities/nie-wellness-centre 📌 Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction & episode setup 00:30 – Why this episode matters for parents of victims 00:42 – Bernard’s school-bus bullying story 02:17 – The “just ignore it” myth & bystander problem 03:26 – Parents reinforcing long-term victim mentality 06:36 – Parents’ WhatsApp group conflicts 08:40 – Restorative justice explained 12:27 – Who should parents approach for help 15:05 – Telltale signs of bullying 16:14 - Know your child more holistically 18:09 - What to do if your child doesn't talk to you 21:28 – Other signs of bullying: Eating 22:11 - Anger: The secondary emotion -- Hosting provided by SoundOn