2.4 Uncolonizing Relationships Through Energetic Sovereignty

Are you in ownership and authorship of your thoughts, emotions, and experiences?   Is your energy fully yours to direct towards your pleasure, play, and passion or do you hold yourself back in self-doubt, criticism, and judgment?   How, when, and with whom do you engage in fear projections when your intimacy wounds get activated?    In this 4th episode of the Devotional Anarchy podcast, I get into uncolonizing relationships, specifically the subtle ways we use power and control in relationship with ourselves and with the people in our lives, and how energetic sovereignty supports liberation and healing in relationships.   Energetic sovereignty means having an unwavering connection to Source within yourself (i.e., understanding your humanity as divine), which includes embracing your Shadow, allowing yourself to experience all of your emotions, honoring the boundaries of your yeses and no's, owning your sexual and creative expression, and moving in alignment with heart integrity. In other words, intimate connection to Self. Energetic sovereignty can support: -Safety within the root of your own energetic/body system so that you don't have to acquire it externally; -Checking for possible hidden agendas -Trust of your own love and wisdom -Responsibility for your activations and the removal of blame and shame -Resourcing from within and advocating for what you need -Emotional fluency and fluidity  -Integrity of heart in relationships I also share 6 pillars of uncolonizing relationships so that you can create more love and freedom from the inside out. Explore my 9-month, intimacy and integrity accelerator, the SOVEREIGN Metabody:  https://ishavela.com/sovereign/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Get a taste of the alchemy by booking a 60-minute 1:1 ATTUNE session with me at $222 (discounted $100) through the end of March. https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/attune   Download my free PDF on the 4 Pillars of Open + Intimate Communication Using Body Wisdom from my website: https://ishavela.com/   Explore my 3 and 6-month mentorship packages for 1:1 somatic intimacy alchemy to break through intimacy impasses and deepen the connection in their relationships: https://ishavela.com/devotion/     See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas