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EPISODE · Dec 17, 2025 · 1H 1M

2. What Can We Learn from Ethical Sluts?

from Deviants · host Nyla Khan and Cole Paulson

What if the people society shames for wanting “too much” actually have something to teach us about honesty, boundaries, and self-trust? In this episode, Nyla and Cole unpack what ethical non-monogamy - and those who practice it - reveal about communication, desire, and emotional responsibility. This isn’t an argument for one relationship structure over another, but a bold look at what happens when we stop moralising desire and start relating with more clarity, care, and consent.Here are some of the recommendations we make in the episode:The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet HardyCome As Your Are by Dr. Emily NagoskiPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica FernThe Non-Monogamy Playbook by Ruby RareThe Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der KolkTo find our more about Nyla's work around Pace, Power & Pleasure visit www.unboundrelating.com and follow @unboundrelating on Instagram, TikTok & Substack.

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