2. Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men — and How to Change the Pattern

In this special episode of The Adored Woman, I’m interviewed by Pearl Mashour about the real reasons successful, capable women struggle in love — and what actually changes everything.We talk about the patterns so many women recognise: over-giving, advising, fixing, chasing… and then feeling frustrated, turned off, or unseen. I explain why that happens, and how shifting out of the old patterns and into emotional connection transforms attraction.Inside this conversation, we explore:The “ABCs” that quietly kill attraction: advising, blaming, criticisingWhy women unconsciously choose emotionally unavailable partnersHow fear of intimacy hides behind “no chemistry” or “he’s too nice”The difference between making a man the prize vs making the relationship the prizeWhat self-love actually means (and why you can be loved but struggle to receive it)Why vulnerability increases attraction instead of weakening youThe surprising truth about chemistry vs compatibilityRebuilding trust after betrayal or divorceHow polarity and feminine energy restore connection and desireWe also talk about sex, emotional safety, appreciation in long-term relationships, and why so many women feel they’ve “failed” at love — when really they’ve just never been taught how it works.This episode is your reminder:You don’t need to become someone else to be loved.You don’t need to chase love harder.And you absolutely have not missed your chance.You cannot fail at love — you either stop, or you keep going.If you’re ready to understand yourself more deeply, and finally experience being truly adored… this conversation will inspire you I promise!Get The FREE "9 Aspects Of The Adored Woman" training here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetrainingNaomie still offers 1:1 coaching. Schedule a free Intro call here:⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/free-introductory-call ⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to Naomie’s YouTube channel:⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.youtube.com/@NaomieThompson⁠⁠⁠Find the Female Fluence Podcast hereNaomie Thompson dating and Relationship Coach