20. Learning to Say No: A Journey to Find My Voice

What happens when you finally stand up for yourself after a lifetime of putting someone else first? The moment I set my first boundary with my father changed everything between us – and within myself.After supporting my father through 13 years of incarceration from age 12 to 25, I found myself trapped in a cycle of manipulation and guilt.  Until one day, when he made a passive-aggressive comment about my gym time being more important than his needs – and something inside me snapped.The words flew out with a ferocity that surprised us both: "That's right. My whole life I have taken care of you and now it's my turn to take care of me." For the first time, I saw fear in his eyes. This raw, emotional episode explores the exhausting journey of prison visits, collect calls, and sacrifice that led to this breaking point. I share gut-wrenching stories – like spending seven hours on public transportation for a two-hour prison visit as a teenager – and the gradual realization that this devotion wasn't reciprocal.Growing up walking on eggshells and having my boundaries consistently violated taught me to be hypervigilant, a skill that transformed into the keen intuition I now use to connect with clients. Through this deeply personal story, I hope to inspire you to identify your own non-negotiables and find the courage to speak your truth – even when it's difficult. Because being specific about your needs and honoring your boundaries is far better than becoming a watered-down version of yourself to please everyone else.Ready to start setting better boundaries? Tune in to discover how standing in your power can transform your relationships and reclaim your life.Send us Fan MailIf you want the deeper lessons behind strength training, join my newsletter called Between Reps: Building the Unbreakable Woman. Check it out HEREInstagram: www.instagram.com/tianamovesWebsite: unbreakablemb.comEmail: [email protected]: This show is for education and entertainment purposes only.  This is not intended as a replacement for therapy. Please seek out the help of a professional to assist you with your specific situation.