#20 Nigel reflects on 15 years post-Crohn's op, and a life-changing experience

Send us Fan MailThe tables are turned in this episode! Now Rachel interviews Nigel about his life-changing bowel surgery in 2010. Fifteen years on, Nigel reflects on the symptoms that led to his Crohn's surgery, the emotional and practical preparations, and the highs and lows of recovery - including living with a temporary stoma and navigating postoperative ileus. With his trademark candid storytelling and humour, Nigel shares how planning, shared decision-making and trust in his healthcare team helped him transform fear into confidence. A must-listen for anyone facing IBD surgery or supporting someone who is.🧠 Key Discussion PointsThe inflammatory bowel disease symptoms that led to surgery: stricture, pain, fistulas, and the infamous “octopus” scanWhat “semi-elective” surgery means and why it mattersEmotional and practical preparation: writing a will, planning recovery, and managing expectationsThe psychological impact of being treated at St Thomas’ HospitalNigel’s experience with a temporary stoma - from initial shock to newfound confidenceThe challenges of postoperative ileus and nasogastric tubesThe importance of shared decision-making and asking the right questionsHow surgery reshaped Nigel’s relationship with healthcare and his own resilience📌 Listener TakeawaysSurgery can be life-saving and life-enhancing - not just a last resortPlanning ahead (emotionally, practically, legally) can ease the stress of major treatmentHospital environment and staff support play a huge role in recoveryTemporary stomas can offer unexpected benefits - including confidence and freedomPostoperative challenges like ileus are real and difficult, but manageable with supportA positive surgical experience can reshape your relationship with healthcareAsk questions, understand your options, and prepare realisticallyShared decision-making empowers patients and improves outcomes📣 Where to ListenAll episodes of Wrestling the Octopus are available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.Follow Rachel at @bottomlineibdFollow Nigel at @crohnoid