20: The Girls Chase A-Team | Lessons from Stockholm

A few of us Girls Chase authors met up in Stockholm, Sweden this past summer. We met plenty of women, both during the day and night, and had lots of fun observing and adapting many of the different social strategies we teach on Girls Chase. • Pablo, Alek, and Varoon discuss our third night out, at a large indie rooftop dance venue. (3:24) • Alek and Pablo discuss their big lesson of the night. (4:15) • Pablo discusses his “bullshit opener” and why it’s not important what you open with, but HOW you open. (5:45) • Pablo introduces the traffic light system – how to tell if a girl is receptive to an advance. (6:49) • Pablo and Alek compare their night game styles – Alek’s verbal game vs. Pablo’s escalation game. (7:27) • Alek discusses wingman styles and how to synchronize. (8:38) • Alek and Pablo note how both girls they were talking to separated themselves to be with the boys. (10:40) • Pablo’s ultimate compliance test. (11:38) • Alek introduces his Tantric Sex routine and why it’s important to introduce sexual topics in a non-explicit way. (13:13) • Alek and Pablo describe how they create a physical connection with any woman by discussing Tantric Sex. (14:45) • We discuss how Alek uses his hair as a prop, and why it’s important to have a girl invest in you when you’re with her. (18:20) • Varoon describes how he plants many seeds early in the night to be more social and create interest. (19:16) • Varoon’s escalation style – and why it’s important to escalate properly. (21:00) • Alek, Varoon, and Pablo discuss the dynamics in night clubs, men, and women in North America vs. Europe. (21:43) • Alek, Varoon, and Pablo share their experience at a dive bar at the end of the night. (24:58) • Varoon introduces Hector’s experience with street approaching throughout the weekend and how women light up every time. (28:53) • Hector shares how he approaches women during the day, how women don’t stop being women whether it’s day or night, and how to react to a woman viscerally. (29:42) • Hector discusses why fundamentals are so important and how most men ignore them. (31:07) • Hector discusses why the angle of approach is important on street approaches, and why her friend moving away is a signal of acceptance. (33:15) • Alek discusses Hector’s confidence in approaching. (35:00) • Hector discusses getting over approach anxiety. (37:33) • Alek and Hector discuss how Hector hooks girls in after approaching them, night or day, and how to tell if a girl likes a man instantly. (38:30). • Varoon and Hector discuss how to use pointing to gain compliance and break tension in an approach. (40:08) • Hector, Varoon, Pablo, and Alek reveal how they hook women during the daytime and at night. (41:44) • Kant and Varoon note Hector’s opener is authentic, and how some ballsier approaches are more advanced. (43:42) • Everyone shares their biggest lesson – the “Red-Yellow-Green” traffic light system. (48:00) • Pablo and Kant discuss how guys waste too much time with “yellow” girls when they should leave and find a “green” girl. (50:15) • Everyone shares how “green” girls can be 10s, but you don’t know what they are until you approach them. (53:25) • Hector discusses day-game approach invitations. (55:03) • How girls react when a guy is sort of attracted to her vs. REALLY attracted to her. (56:48) • Kant describes his “automatic” connection with his girl. (58:00) • The guys discuss how to touch a girl softly and gently to increase desire and sexual tension. (59:25) • The role of WILDCARDS in night game. (1:00:58) • Pablo shares his wild, explicit, and totally weird night-game story from a different weekend. (1:01:20) Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/podcast-girls-chase-seduction-team-lessons-stockholm LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”