20 Things I'm Leaving in my 20s ~ Ep47

SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/up-past-bedtime-messina/subscribe If someone had asked me at 20 what my life would look like at 30... this definitely wouldn't have been my answer. A few weeks into my thirties, I've realised something... Turning 30 didn't feel like the end of anything. If anything, it felt like the beginning. So before I get too comfortable in this new decade, I wanted to look back on the 20 things I consciously chose to leave behind in my twenties. From people pleasing, comparison and perfectionism to making men the centre of my life, chasing productivity and waiting until I felt "ready"... this episode is all about the habits, beliefs and mindsets that no longer serve the woman I'm becoming. My twenties gave me some of the highest highs and lowest lows. I became a wife, a Mum, a single Mum, a business owner, a homeowner and, somewhere amongst all of that, I slowly became someone I genuinely really like. Whether you're in your twenties, thirties or beyond, I hope this episode encourages you to reflect on what you're ready to let go of, because sometimes the best way to step into a new chapter is by deciding what doesn't get to come with you. ♥️ Up Past Bedtime with Bella Messina is your go-to for late-night, unfiltered chats... the kind of conversations you’d have with your closest girlfriends. From relationships to motherhood, no topic is off-limits as Bella, a 30-something mum of two, invites you into candid conversations with inspiring women and shares her own raw stories. This podcast is where you’ll feel seen, heard, and completely understood. So get comfortable, because the best conversations happen when you’re up past bedtime. HAVE SOMETHING TO SHARE?! Contact us on the UPB Hotline: [email protected] UPB Socials: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uppastbedtimepodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uppastbedtimepodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch on Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Or Email Us: [email protected] Bella’s Socials: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@bellsmessina⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@bellsmessina