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EPISODE · Aug 29, 2025 · 18 MIN

20 | Who Am I Now That My Baby’s Gone?

from Loud About Loss | Life After Child Loss for Christian Moms, Grief Support, Infant Loss · host Becky Hunt | Author, Speaker, Child Loss Advocate

When you lose a child, everything you thought you knew about yourself suddenly feels… uncertain. Am I still a mom if my baby isn’t here? Who am I when the world looks at me differently? How do I live in a body and a life that no longer feel like mine?These are the haunting questions so many bereaved mothers ask—but few ever say out loud.In this episode of Loud About Loss, I share my own struggle with the identity crisis that followed losing my daughter Gracie, and how grief reshaped every part of how I saw myself. And while the world—and even our own inner voices—try to define us by our loss, the truth is something entirely different.Piece by piece, through story and Scripture, we’ll uncover where your true identity is found. Spoiler alert: it’s not in your loss, your circumstances, or what others whisper about you. Your identity is secure in Christ Jesus—and it’s unshakable.💛 In this episode you’ll discover:Why grief makes you question who you areHow the world tries to label bereaved moms—and why it’s a lieThe surprising place your identity is actually anchoredPractical ways to live boldly in who Christ says you areIf you’ve ever wondered who you are now that your baby is gone, this episode will remind you: you are still a mother, you are still loved, and your story is far from over.💛💛 Let’s stay connected. If this episode spoke to you, please follow the show and leave a review—it helps other grieving moms find us. And don’t forget to join the community newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠loudaboutloss.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for weekly encouragement, updates on Becky's book, and a free gift from Becky. 💛💬 And if this episode moved you, don’t keep it to yourself—hit that follow button and share it with a friend who needs to hear it. Because no one should grieve alone. 💛

When you lose a child, everything you thought you knew about yourself suddenly feels… uncertain. Am I still a mom if my baby isn’t here? Who am I when the world looks at me differently? How do I live in a body and a life that no longer feel like mine?These are the haunting questions so many bereaved mothers ask—but few ever say out loud.In this episode of Loud About Loss, I share my own struggle with the identity crisis that followed losing my daughter Gracie, and how grief reshaped every part of how I saw myself. And while the world—and even our own inner voices—try to define us by our loss, the truth is something entirely different.Piece by piece, through story and Scripture, we’ll uncover where your true identity is found. Spoiler alert: it’s not in your loss, your circumstances, or what others whisper about you. Your identity is secure in Christ Jesus—and it’s unshakable.💛 In this episode you’ll discover:Why grief makes you question who you areHow the world tries to label bereaved moms—and why it’s a lieThe surprising place your identity is actually anchoredPractical ways to live boldly in who Christ says you areIf you’ve ever wondered who you are now that your baby is gone, this episode will remind you: you are still a mother, you are still loved, and your story is far from over.💛💛 Let’s stay connected. If this episode spoke to you, please follow the show and leave a review—it helps other grieving moms find us. And don’t forget to join the community newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠loudaboutloss.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for weekly encouragement, updates on Becky's book, and a free gift from Becky. 💛💬 And if this episode moved you, don’t keep it to yourself—hit that follow button and share it with a friend who needs to hear it. Because no one should grieve alone. 💛

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