EPISODE · Jul 29, 2025 · 50 MIN
200: Episode 200, WOW!: Penises, Podcasts & Personal Growth – Melissa Reflects
from The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Men’s Sexual Health · host Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett
In this milestone 200th episode, the tables are turned as Dr Amy Pearlman interviews The Penis Project's own Melissa Hadley Barrett. From wet hair and time zone mix-ups to powerful patient stories and favourite sex toys, this episode is a heartwarming, hilarious, and deeply honest look into what Melissa has learned after 200 interviews about penises, pleasure, relationships, and recovery. Amy has been a popular guest on The Penis Project and a friend and colleague to Melissa over the past few years and for something different the tables have turned, and Amy is interviewing Melissa to see what she has learnt being a part of The Penis Project community for 200 episodes and just under 5 years of posting. On the 14th of September the Penis Project will have been live for 5 years. This may not seem like a long time for most people but for Melissa it has been huge. Keeping the interviews coming and arranging editing and show notes etc. whilst running a busy growing practice has been hard but worth it, and she has learnt way more from her patients and interviewees than she thought possible. Together, Melissa and Amy explore: How a podcast that began during COVID lockdowns with Melissa and Dr Jo Milios (Physiotherapist) and then without realising became a global resource for men’s health Why it’s time to stop joking about penises and start listening The emotional side of male sexuality and how assumptions miss the mark What men really want after prostate cancer (hint: it isn’t just erections) How patients have reshaped Melissa’s clinical approach over time Products that have changed lives—and a few that scared her husband New conversations about sounding, Tantra, and intimacy beyond intercourse What Melissa hopes to do with the next 200 episodes—and who she dreams she will interview next and her dream to be interviewed by…. In This Episode, We Cover: How the podcast began as a way to help patients and became so much more Learning from patients about loss, masculinity, and connection Rethinking the urgency of "getting it up" and embracing broader definitions of intimacy The importance of not making assumptions as clinicians Sex toys and tools Melissa now recommends—and the ones she avoids What a Tantra workshop has taught her about relationships Sounding: safety, stigma, and why we need to talk about it The power of podcasts to create change and community connection Key Takeaways: Empathy, humour and curiosity matter more than bravado Real stories help others feel seen, supported, and less alone Sexual health is about connection, not just erections There is no one-size-fits-all solution, but there is always a way forward Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett: "My goal is to open up the conversation. Whether it’s about erectile dysfunction, sex after cancer, or pleasure in new ways. Men and their partners deserve honest support and practical options. This podcast has become my passion project, and it’s changed how I practice. Most of all I want to thank the people who have let us interview them for sharing stories and teaching me so much I could never have learnt from a book or another health professional. I hope my patients and listeners realise how important they are to me, my growth as a human and as a health professional." Useful Mentions: FirmTech erection ring ("Fitbit for your dick")https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/firmtech-techring , Manta by The Fun Factory https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/fun-factory-manta-deep-sea-blue VaxAid pump – TGA approved hydro pump for ED Tantra retreats by Sanctuary of Ananda Beaming Beaver organic lubricant My Ilo Australian-designed sex toys Steve "The Poet Who Didn't Know It" and his book Words Woke Me Resources & Links: Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au Listen & Subscribe If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app. Connect With Us We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch. Email: [email protected] Websites: https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders https://makehardeasy.com.au https://melissahadleybarrett.com http://prost.com.au/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/ https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissahadleybarrett TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ TEDX https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA
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In this milestone 200th episode, the tables are turned as Dr Amy Pearlman interviews The Penis Project's own Melissa Hadley Barrett. From wet hair and time zone mix-ups to powerful patient stories and favourite sex toys, this episode is a heartwarming, hilarious, and deeply honest look into what Melissa has learned after 200 interviews about penises, pleasure, relationships, and recovery. Amy has been a popular guest on The Penis Project and a friend and colleague to Melissa over the past few years and for something different the tables have turned, and Amy is interviewing Melissa to see what she has learnt being a part of The Penis Project community for 200 episodes and just under 5 years of posting. On the 14th of September the Penis Project will have been live for 5 years. This may not seem like a long time for most people but for Melissa it has been huge. Keeping the interviews coming and arranging editing and show notes etc. whilst running a busy growing practice has been hard but worth it, and she has learnt way more from her patients and interviewees than she thought possible. Together, Melissa and Amy explore: How a podcast that began during COVID lockdowns with Melissa and Dr Jo Milios (Physiotherapist) and then without realising became a global resource for men’s health Why it’s time to stop joking about penises and start listening The emotional side of male sexuality and how assumptions miss the mark What men really want after prostate cancer (hint: it isn’t just erections) How patients have reshaped Melissa’s clinical approach over time Products that have changed lives—and a few that scared her husband New conversations about sounding, Tantra, and intimacy beyond intercourse What Melissa hopes to do with the next 200 episodes—and who she dreams she will interview next and her dream to be interviewed by…. In This Episode, We Cover: How the podcast began as a way to help patients and became so much more Learning from patients about loss, masculinity, and connection Rethinking the urgency of "getting it up" and embracing broader definitions of intimacy The importance of not making assumptions as clinicians Sex toys and tools Melissa now recommends—and the ones she avoids What a Tantra workshop has taught her about relationships Sounding: safety, stigma, and why we need to talk about it The power of podcasts to create change and community connection Key Takeaways: Empathy, humour and curiosity matter more than bravado Real stories help others feel seen, supported, and less alone Sexual health is about connection, not just erections There is no one-size-fits-all solution, but there is always a way forward Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett: "My goal is to open up the conversation. Whether it’s about erectile dysfunction, sex after cancer, or pleasure in new ways. Men and their partners deserve honest support and practical options. This podcast has become my passion project, and it’s changed how I practice. Most of all I want to thank the people who have let us interview them for sharing stories and teaching me so much I could never have learnt from a book or another health professional. I hope my patients and listeners realise how important they are to me, my growth as a human and as a health professional." Useful Mentions: FirmTech erection ring ("Fitbit for your dick")https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/firmtech-techring , Manta by The Fun Factory https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/fun-factory-manta-deep-sea-blue VaxAid pump – TGA approved hydro pump for ED Tantra retreats by Sanctuary of Ananda Beaming Beaver organic lubricant My Ilo Australian-designed sex toys Steve "The Poet Who Didn't Know It" and his book Words Woke Me Resources & Links: Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.m
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