#201: Trying to Get His Wife Pregnant While Dating Another Woman (Tyler Ippoliti)

You've wondered about it. Maybe you've even fantasised about it.What would it actually be like to open up your relationship? Would it fix what's missing, or would it blow everything up?Tyler  Ippoliti has been married for 8 years and polyamorous for 6 of them. In this episode he takes us all the way in: the first threesome that was awkward as hell, the night his wife went on a date with a man from her past and he sat with his anxious attachment in real time, the relationship he had to grieve while planning to have kids, and the deep-end experience with another couple that nearly broke all of them.We talk about jealousy, attachment, sexual health conversations, and why he believes opening a relationship won't fix a single thing that's already broken, it just adds gasoline. We also get into why so many men in open relationships don't disclose it upfront, and what that says about what they're actually doing.This one is honest, uncomfortable in places, and might just answer questions you've never said out loud.WHAT WE GET INTOWhat actually happens the first time you try a threesome with your partnerWhy opening a relationship won't fix what's already brokenThe anxious attachment that comes up when your partner is on a date with someone elseWhy men in open relationships often don't tell you until date three — and what that meansJealousy: where it actually comes from and how to work with itTIMESTAMPS00:00: What open and polyamorous actually mean, and the difference between them03:55: The first threesome, and why it was awkward as hell14:08: The date that triggered his deepest anxious attachment28:55: Ending a relationship to start trying for kids, and how his wife held him through it49:32: The deep end: falling in love with another couple, and why it nearly broke everyone1:02:58: Why opening a relationship adds gasoline, not water, to existing problems1:08:10: Jealousy, fantasy, and what it's actually telling youConnect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)Connect with Tyler: @tylerwayneippoliti Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)