201 - You Don't Become Someone New Without Saying Goodbye to Someone Old

Episode 201 feels like the beginning of a new season for Getting After It.After 200 episodes, I've been thinking a lot about what growth actually costs. We spend so much time talking about becoming stronger, healthier, more disciplined, better spouses, better parents, and better people. But we don't talk enough about what has to be left behind.In this episode, I share some lessons I've learned from marriage, running, moving to Utah, starting this podcast, and preparing to become a father. I've realized that every meaningful change asks something from us. Sometimes it's comfort. Sometimes it's old habits. Sometimes it's an identity we've held onto for years.I also talk about why I think the phrase "just wait" gets marriage and parenthood wrong, how obsession can help us grow but also pull us away from what matters most, and why the future version of ourselves is being built in the small choices we make today.You don't become someone new without saying goodbye to someone old.I hope this conversation encourages you to take an honest look at what you're holding onto, what you're willing to sacrifice, and who you're trying to become.If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear your thoughts. And if you know someone with a story worth sharing, send them my way. I'm excited for this next chapter of the podcast and for more conversations with people who are trying to grow, struggle, and get after it right alongside us.–––––––––––––––––-Website: Keepgettingafterit.comFollow on X: @bcrossellSubscribe on YouTube: @gettingafteritpodcastFollow on Instagram: @bcrossellFollow on TikTok: gettingafterit_podcastYou're not lazy. You're not lost. You just know there's a gap between the life you're living and the one you're capable of — and that gap is getting harder to ignore.Every week, I pull apart the mental patterns that keep capable people stuck — comfort disguised as patience, avoidance disguised as strategy, mediocrity dressed up as balance. I bring in philosophy, personal stories from the trails and the trenches, and conversations with people who decided to stop waiting.This isn't a show about hacks. It's about the harder work: getting honest with yourself, building the discipline to act on that honesty, and becoming someone you'd actually respect.Keep getting after it.Send us Fan Mail