202: Stop Waiting to Feel Motivated

Motivation doesn’t create action. Action creates motivation. Meet Melissa. She stares through the windshield at the county administration building, overwhelmed by the demands of work, family, and being the person everyone turns to when things fall apart. She loves helping people, but she has become so focused on carrying everyone else's problems that she has forgotten to make space for herself. In this episode, Jay sits down with Angela Davies, founder of Mind Your Grit and Leadership and Wellbeing Consultant. After experiencing severe burnout and panic attacks firsthand, Angela now helps leaders and organizations maintain high performance while prioritizing wellbeing. Together, they explore why wellbeing is the foundation of sustainable performance, how to stop playing the hero, why perfectionism can become a protective mechanism, and the truth about motivation: action creates motivation. Notable Quotes “Motivation doesn't come before action. Action creates motivation.” — Angela Davies “Perfectionism is a protective mechanism.” — Angela Davies “Downsize, don't delete.” — Angela Davies “What is your version of a rich life?” — Angela Davies About Our Guest Angela Davies is the founder of Mind Your Grit and a leadership and wellbeing consultant who helps leaders and organizations create sustainable high performance without sacrificing wellbeing. After experiencing severe burnout and panic attacks during her own corporate career, Angela studied psychology and began exploring how wellbeing, resilience, and grit can work together to help people perform at their best without burning out. Resources & Links Angela Davies Website – https://www.mindyourgrit.com/about LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/angelardavies Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/mind.your.grit YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@workandwellnesspod Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay dives deeper into the difference between being the hero and being the captain. If you're constantly putting out fires, solving everyone else's problems, and carrying too much on your shoulders, this episode will explore how to step out of hero mode and become the captain of your own ship. Jay will share personal stories from his time at Tesla and lessons from coaching hundreds of leaders at Fortune 100 companies to reveal what really works.