2025.08.16 | 童年格外重要，因为我们正在建立应对困境的脑回路。

朗 读 者：Win（美）- 青岛地铁全线英文站名播报员朗 读 者 ：Emma（中）拍 摄 地：一席书院“我们的童年格外重要，因为我们正在建立我们看待和应对困境的脑回路。而父母对我们所遭遇困境的看法和应对方式对这一过程有巨大影响。或者这样说：在困境中挣扎时，我们会对自己说些什么？这取决于父母当时对我们说了什么或者做了什么。什么是脑回路呢？在生命早期，我们的大脑会学习很多新东西，例如在什么情况下能获得爱、理解和关注，以及在什么情况下会遭到拒绝、惩罚和冷落。”——— 《看见孩子》   “Our childhood is especially important because we’re building the neural pathways that shape how we perceive and respond to challenges. And our parents’ perspectives and reactions to our struggles profoundly influence this process.Or to put it another way: What do we tell ourselves when we’re struggling? It depends on what our parents said or did in those moments.What are neural pathways?Early in life, our brains learn patterns—like what earns love, understanding, and attention, and what leads to rejection, punishment, or neglect.”