204. Achieving Big Goals: How Personal Growth Can Feel Hard

If you've been wondering why pursuing your big goals feels so hard, maybe it's time to rethink what you're expecting from the journey.In this episode, Steph tackles one of the biggest mindset traps in personal growth: the belief that life should be easy. She breaks down why challenges and struggle aren't signs that something is wrong, but are actually essential ingredients for achieving big goals. Steph encourages listeners to release false expectations, embrace the effort that real success requires, and find resilience and even pride in overcoming what's difficult. If you're ready to stop resisting the hard parts and start using them as fuel, this one's for you.In this episode you'll discover:The misconception that life should be easyChallenges as opportunities for growthAligning effort with big goalsThe role of struggle in achieving successYour takeaways:Expect challenges when aiming for a big lifeMost people avoid the discomfort necessary for growthReleasing false expectations reduces sufferingChapters00:00 Embracing Life's Challenges04:15 Expectations vs. Reality in Pursuing Big Dreams07:15 The Role of Effort in Achieving Greatness📩 Join my newsletter: stephsaffer.com⁠🤝 Work with me 1:1: stephsaffer.com/contact-me/⁠