#209: The Patriarchy Destroyed Dating (Amy Rushworth)

You didn't learn to center men because you're weak. You learned it because the world taught you to.We grew up in a society built around male needs, male timelines, male approval. And even the most financially independent, self-aware, high-achieving women are still carrying that conditioning into their dating lives, shrinking, over-giving, measuring their worth by whether he calls back. The patriarchy didn't just affect the workplace. It got inside how we love.And it's quietly destroying your dating results.Decentering men isn't a feminist buzzword. It's the most practical dating strategy there is. Because the moment you stop making him the main character and start living from the identity of the chosen woman, before any man shows up, everything changes. The men you attract change. The way they treat you changes. The dynamic changes entirely.Amy Rushworth is back on Sex, Love and Money and we are going there. Amy calls her own relationship a miracle, because with her past trauma and her history, becoming the woman she is inside her ten year relationship is the real achievement. She got there through deep identity work and she now supports thousands of women to do the very same. To start living as the chosen woman now. Find Amy Rushworth: @thisisamyrushworth on Instagram.Apply to work with Rebecca in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (https://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)