EPISODE · May 11, 2026 · 10 MIN
#21| Is This Grief or Depression After Baby Loss? How to Tell the Difference
from Holding Women Through Grief | Miscarriage, Still Birth, Loss, Death, Grief Support Group · host Tasha Cofer | Bereavement Doula, Grief Educator, Author
If you’ve been wondering, ‘Is this grief… or is something else happening to me?’ this episode is for you. After baby loss, it’s normal to feel shattered. But sometimes the heaviness becomes depression and it can be hard to tell the difference. Today we’ll talk about what’s common, what’s a red flag, and what to do next. In this episode, we talk about: why grief can look like depression on the outside (sleep, appetite, fog, numbness, anger) the simplest way to tell the difference: grief is usually loss-centered, depression is often self-attacking + future-collapsed green flags vs red flags (in plain language, not clinical) the myths that keep women stuck in silence (“I’m failing,” “others have it worse,” “I’m supposed to suffer forever”) what to do next if it feels like grief, depression, or both including how to ask for help using simple words If you want support beyond this episode resources, coaching, and a place to land my website is here Disclaimer: This podcast is for supportive and educational purposes only. I am not a licensed therapist and I’m not diagnosing you in a podcast episode. This does not replace a doctor or therapist. If you’re experiencing ongoing hopelessness, panic, intrusive thoughts, feeling unsafe, or any thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a licensed professional or emergency support immediately.
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If you’ve been wondering, ‘Is this grief… or is something else happening to me?’ this episode is for you. After baby loss, it’s normal to feel shattered. But sometimes the heaviness becomes depression and it can be hard to tell the difference. Today we’ll talk about what’s common, what’s a red flag, and what to do next. In this episode, we talk about: why grief can look like depression on the outside (sleep, appetite, fog, numbness, anger) the simplest way to tell the difference: grief is usually loss-centered, depression is often self-attacking + future-collapsed green flags vs red flags (in plain language, not clinical) the myths that keep women stuck in silence (“I’m failing,” “others have it worse,” “I’m supposed to suffer forever”) what to do next if it feels like grief, depression, or both including how to ask for help using simple words If you want support beyond this episode resources, coaching, and a place to land my website is here Disclaimer: This podcast is for supportive and educational purposes only. I am not a licensed therapist and I’m not diagnosing you in a podcast episode. This does not replace a doctor or therapist. If you’re experiencing ongoing hopelessness, panic, intrusive thoughts, feeling unsafe, or any thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a licensed professional or emergency support immediately.
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