21: Shiv Singh - Your Why Is the Way

OVERVIEW We're joined today by Shiv Singh, Founder of Emerge Management Consulting. Shiv is a compelling example of what it means to "look inside" and figure out what you've been put on this planet to do. We hear a lot about "find your why," but Shiv demonstrates how to put the concept into action — even if it requires going against societal norms. Lots to learn here, from both a career and life perspective. Tired of being "stuck" in your tech career? Try the Wednesday Wisdom newsletter. *** TAKEAWAYS "Early life" pressures (e.g., educational success) might be subconsciously driving your career and life choices — to your detriment. An overemphasis on external validation is dangerous; we must balance it with finding success internally. Your "why" is your compass (and your criteria) for making daily micro-decisions that add up to a meaningful, fulfilled life. Diving into entrepreneurship removes the safety net and forces you to gauge what you're truly capable of. Rather than fixating on an exact route to a single career destination, stay nimble and explore multiple paths that feel directionally "right." *** TIMESTAMPS [2:12] Pillars of life [8:12] Associating academic & career success [13:23] Striving for never-ending external validation [17:15] Taking a leap of faith “on myself” [22:20] The forcing function for your growth [26:28] Don’t obsess over goals; one meaningful step at a time [32:44] Joys & hardships of being on your own [34:38] The Pathless Path [37:09] Reconciling your professional & personal selves [41:10] Mental health in management consulting *** RESOURCES Related episode (#17): Self-Reliance Connect w/ Shiv on LinkedIn Check out Shiv's business: Emerge Management Consulting Connect w/ Matt on LinkedIn Follow on Twitter @MatthewRDoan Check the show on YouTube Subscribe to the Wednesday Wisdom newsletter