213: July Joy Series – How Rejoicing in the Joy of Others can Increase your Happiness

What if one of the simplest ways to experience more joy wasn't about changing your own life at all?Welcome back to our July Joy Series here on the Habit Thrive Podcast! This month, we've been discovering that joy isn't something we simply wait for—it's something we intentionally notice, cultivate, and create.On Episode #213 this week, we're exploring one of the most powerful (and surprisingly challenging) joy practices of all: celebrating the happiness and success of others.Whether it's a friend sharing exciting news, a family member reaching a milestone, or someone posting vacation photos on social media, it's easy for comparison to sneak in and quietly drain our own happiness.But what if those moments could actually become opportunities to fill our own Habit Thrive Cup?We're chatting about the ancient Buddhist practice of Mudita—the practice of finding genuine joy in another person's joy—and why this simple mindset shift has the power to expand your own happiness.In this episode, we'll explore:Why comparison and envy are such natural human experiences.The ancient practice of Mudita and how it protects us from comparison.Insights from The Book of Joy by the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu.Research from positive psychology showing how celebrating others increases our own happiness and life satisfaction.How social media can become a place to practice joy instead of comparison.Simple ways to become a "Joy Detective" and intentionally celebrate the wins of others.How rejoicing in someone else's joy helps fill your own Habit Thrive Cup.This Week's Joy ChallengeThe next time someone shares good news—whether in person, in a text message, or on social media—pause before comparing.Instead:Say, "Good for you."Celebrate with them.Leave a kind comment or ask a thoughtful question.Let yourself genuinely experience their happiness.Notice how it feels in your body. That warm, expansive feeling? That's your Habit Thrive Cup filling.Because joy was never meant to be hoarded—it was always meant to be shared.xoxoLorrieIn this episode:The How of Happiness by Sonja LyubomirskyLoving the show? Let’s connect! Find me:Facebook: Women's Wellness Community: For women wanting to rock their “Me Now” YearsInstagram: @Habitguru365Website: lorriemickelson.comMemberVault: lorriemickelson.vipmembervault.comPower & Purpose Daily Motivations: A Year of Coming Home to Yourself: Find it hereHabits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & BeyondLoving the show? Let’s connect! Find me:Facebook: Women's Wellness Community: For women wanting to rock their “Me Now” YearsInstagram: @Habitguru365Website: lorriemickelson.comMemberVault: lorriemickelson.vipmembervault.comHabits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & Beyond