215 - Don't Do That! What I would tell myself as a young dad

I've been married 34 years this past week. Judie posed the question to me in our podcast "Into The Grey". What would you tell your 18/20-year-old self about relationships, careers, and spirituality?  This got me thinking about what I would tell myself as a young man about being a dad and good husband Show Highlights: Remember they are kids Let them make mistakes Let them explore / explore with them Let them play Make them do a season Let them see you make big moves Let them see you love their mom Counsel with your wife Be a unified front - don’t let kids play you against each other What if you didn’t have a good dad You know what you didn’t like, you know what you don’t want to be opposite Angry - patient Stubborn- open and understanding Yeller- soft spoken Workaholic - set aside time Overbearing - gentle Alcoholic - Clean and sober Forgive yourself when you mess up Apologize. - own who you are and what you do What would you tell yourself?