215-#Undiet2020: Believing it’s Possible to Change

  In today's episode, we'll talk about Undiet 2020 Undiet 2020 is what I did last weekend. It’s a process of goal setting specialized for women wanting to make peace with food and their body. If you think about how you feel right about your body: Do you feel stuck? Do you deeply want to change the way you engage with food and your body but right away feel so overwhelmed? The first steps in the process of change The first step in the process of change is to believe that change is even possible for us. Believing in oneself is the outcome of having the intention of love, not fear. When we live in a state of fear, we repeat choices that make us feel safe and most likely keep us stuck. As weird as this may sound, being stuck is the place we feel the safest... not the best but the safest. Crazy! Then, the only way for us to see this for ourselves is to take the time to reflect. Setting time aside to sit quietly and ask ourselves … is my approach to life (replace with food or body) over the last 12 months resulted in me feeling better? Achieving what I wanted with my life? That’s the power of reflection... realizing that what we did is or isn’t working for us. Taking responsibility for oneself Life is so fast today that if you don’t intentionally decide to take the time to reflect on what has happened in your life and what we want to happen in our life next, we may repeat the same cycle...Forever! In some way, I think it’s an expectation from society that we don’t reflect because if we did…would we continue to operate our world the way it is? From that place, we can look forward to the space of time in front of us and decide if we should repeat or change our approach. The hard truth is no one is coming to save us... we are the only one that can set a new path for our lives. In today’s episode, I’m going to share what it looks like to reflect and set goals and undiet your life in the upcoming year and decade. What you’ll learn listening to this episode: I share my experience of setting goals for myself in 2020 Why life happens TO us instead of FOR us The power of self-reflection Why taking responsibility for our life can be so scary How the beliefs we hold impacts our goals How the UNDIET challenge work The questions you should ask yourself over the next few weeks Mentioned on the show: UNDIET2020 Registration