216: Accounting, Spirituality & the Drama Triangle: How Nervous System Burnout Hides in Your Finances

Bookkeeping or tax prep make you want to shut down, explode, or avoid it altogether?In this episode, we’re unpacking the surprising intersection between your nervous system, the Drama Triangle, and your relationship to money. Whether you over-control your finances, avoid them completely, or oscillate between burnout and guilt (there’s likely a deeper emotional role you’ve unconsciously taken on. And it’s not just draining your energy) it’s shaping your entire relationship with responsibility, safety, and success.Learn how common business tasks like accounting, taxes, and admin trigger deeper survival responses in the nervous systemUnderstand the hidden role you may be stuck in (Victim, Rescuer, or Persecutor) and how it plays out in your financial behaviorDiscover why nervous system regulation is the missing link between spiritual alignment, emotional resilience, and financial clarityConnect with Abbey: Abbey Rose is The Spiritual Accountant, wealth coach and the Founder of AwakenedAccountants; the most significant conscious accounting movement across the globe.Abbey assists impact driven leaders to create, manage and protect their wealth usingpractical and spiritual concepts. She also mentors them to better understand financialsovereignty and how to build legacy based organisations.Abbey supports visionaries in creating financial freedom by increasing their wealthfrequency. She guides people to claiming their power by taking responsibility for theirfinancial wellbeing and deepening their self-love and self-acceptance. Abbey trulyacknowledges the infinite potential of every soul and helps translate this through business.Abbey lives on the Gold Coast with her two young children, working as a single mum toprovide them with a life that will be cherished.If you are a conscious entrepreneur who wants to learn the essence of financial sovereigntywhen it comes to business then check out Abbey’s website to see how she can further assistyou in your journey.Untethered FB Group https://thespiritual.accountant/untethered-fb-groupWork with Abbey https://thespiritual.accountant/discoveryInstagram https://www.instagram.com/thespiritualaccountant/Book - Somatic Intelligence for Success Nervous system alignment to prevent burnout and leave an impact. Purchase here. Regulation Cheat Sheet PDF Learn to regulate with practices you'll actually use. No need for more time, space or privacy. Download here. Group & 1:1 supportJoin The Academy where visionary leaders build their businesses and bank accounts without sacrificing well-being. Through nervous system regulation tools, body-based trauma therapy, and practical business tips, you learn how to create a business that leaves a positive, lasting impact on the world. Click here.AI co-regulator & nervous system strategist Soma helps you shift out of spirals, self-doubt, and stress-based decision-making—so you can lead from your most grounded, self-aware state. Access here. This podcast explores the intersection of sales, money, and business success, offering entrepreneurial insights on overcoming the inner critic, burnout, and the unique challenges of ADHD and autoimmune conditions, while integrating polyvagal theory, Ayurveda, coaching, resilience, regulation, and trauma healing to support holistic growth and thriving in both life and business.