#218 Maybe He Doesn't Hit You

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! This week's episode title was inspired by the hashtag #maybehedoesnthityou created by socio-cultural critic & friend to the show Zahira Kelly aka @bad_dominicana On this episode… Can you repurpose hate speech? Do mehn deserve the Nobel Peace Prize Peabody EGOT Source Award grant fellowship as a reward for not beating or cheating on you? This week’s hot list: Watch “Hair Wolf” on HBO (it’s good Black girl fun), break up with him, language language language, whole squad demisexual, white supremacist patriarchal capitalism and dating (fvcking yikes), and new microphones because we are very important podcasters. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS Join Queen on Friday, August 16th for a Ms.Vixen IRL event! “Bad Bitch Affirmations: Our Bodies” workshop. Entry is a donation of your choice: http://www.msvixenmag.com/2019/07/affirming-our-bodies-workshop.html RSVP for Inner Hoe Uprising’s Sex Trivia Sunday’s September 1st edition at Luv Story Bar in Brooklyn: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-trivia-sundays-hosted-by-inner-hoe-uprising-tickets-60513425284 NOTES & EXTRA TEA Check out listener Dom from Decatur’s blog: http://domfromdecatur.com/ Listen to Inner Hoe Uprising with special guest Estephanie of bag Ladiez discuss her demisexuality: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/live-with-a-queer-black-demisexual-latinx-baddie Listen to J. discuss her demisexuality on episode 213 (conversation starts around moment 34:48): https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/213-fcking-erasure Listen to our interview with trans activist Diamond Stylz: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/159-black-trans-talk Listen to “Navigating Transness and Siblings” episode of Marsha’s Plate podcast for an intimate conversation with Diamond and her younger brother: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/58-navigating-transness-and-siblings-feat-rak-marshasplates Listen to our review of the Hulu series "Shrill" https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/201-living-room-hair This week’s closing clip features Professor Eddie S. Glaude speaking on MSNBC: https://twitter.com/MSNBC/status/1158479087217913861 This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with production support by Emeka Ochiagha Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/