218 - Mikey Harris - Understanding 'Kairos Time' for young athletes

0:53 Mikey Harris: Childhood Sports Memories and InfluencesMikey Harris reminisced about his childhood sports experiences, particularly his time watching Portsmouth play football with his dad and the memorable atmosphere at Fratton Park. He also discussed his interactions with football icons like Alan Ball and Paul Walsh, which shaped his understanding of the game. Mikey expressed how these experiences have influenced his current perspective on sports and parenting, as he shares similar moments with his son, Charlie.12:47 - Mikey Harris' Coaching JourneyMikey Harris detailed his coaching career, starting as a player coach at Salisbury City and transitioning to assistant manager for five years. He discussed his time at Portsmouth's Academy, Brighton, and coaching the England youth team, emphasizing the valuable experiences gained along the way. Mikey also mentioned his role at Southampton, where he won the under-18s Premier League South, before returning to Brighton as the assistant coach of the under 21s.17:54 Game Models and Coaching PhilosophyMichael Wright initiated a discussion on game models in coaching, asking Mikey Harris how coaches can understand and adapt to different models. Mikey highlighted the significance of authenticity and aligning with a club's values while being open to evolution. He shared his preference for principle-based coaching, focusing on dominating possession and creating high-quality chances, while also emphasizing the importance of player enjoyment and hard work.26:20 -Understanding Trade-offs in Youth DevelopmentMichael Wright shares a quote from economist Thomas Sowell, stating that there are no solutions, only trade-offs, which resonates with Mikey Harris. They both reflect on how this perspective applies to youth development and life decisions, highlighting the necessity of understanding the implications of choices made. Mikey notes that he frequently emphasizes this concept in his discussions.29:37 -Alignment and Success in Football AcademiesMichael Wright elaborated on the factors contributing to success in football academies, noting that alignment from leadership down to coaching is crucial. He cited Brighton as an example of a well-aligned club, while also referencing his experience at Southampton, where a clear game model and strong player connections led to success. Timing also plays a significant role in player development and opportunities.38:49 - Understanding Timing and Emotional Learning in Player DevelopmentMikey Harris elaborates on the concept of "Kairos time," where players must be ready for opportunities that may come at any moment. He stresses the significance of building connections and trust between players and coaches to effectively communicate ideas and foster readiness. Michael Wright adds that understanding emotions and behaviors is crucial for young players, as they navigate their development.53::01 -Understanding Player Behavior and Coaching ApproachesMikey Harris recounted a situation where he misinterpreted a player's lack of effort in training, not realizing the player was mourning the death of his grandmother. This experience highlighted the necessity for coaches to approach players with empathy and to investigate underlying issues before providing feedback. Mikey stressed that understanding players' personal circumstances can lead to more effective coaching conversations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.