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EPISODE · Jun 16, 2025 · 42 MIN

22 Trauma-Informed Parenting: How to Move from Triggered to Thriving Using Faith-Based Strategies For Special Needs Parents

from Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities

How do you respond when your child is having a meltdown and you feel yourself getting triggered? Do you find yourself asking "Why?" or do you shift to asking "How do I survive this moment?"When you're in your "shark waters" - those moments when your own past wounds get activated by your child's behavior - what physical sensations do you notice in your body?Are you more focused on correcting your child's behavior or connecting with their heart? How might shifting this focus change your family dynamics?In this powerful conversation, Debbie Simmons shares her journey from devastating loss to purposeful legacy-building. After losing quadruplets and walking through infertility struggles, Debbie discovered life-changing questions that transformed how she navigates challenges. Now a mother of nine through adoption and founder of AnchorPoint ministry, she teaches the revolutionary "BEST" strategy that helps families move from survival to thriving, especially when dealing with trauma and special needs.Connect with Debbie:AnchorPoint Ministry: anchorpoint.us (Check out Pathway to Hope Camps under Events)Personal Website: thedebbiesimmons.comBook: The Heart of LegacyDownload: FREE BEST Strategy tools available on her websiteResources Mentioned:Trust-Based Relational Intervention (Dr. Karen Purvis, TCU)Pathway to Hope Therapeutic CampsThe BEST Strategy (Breathe, Evaluate, Step back, Take action)AnchorPoint Ministry - faith-based nonprofit supporting families in crisisSpeaking Life Into Homeschool Ad 1While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!Connect with the host: Elyse ScheelerSubscribe: Speaking Life Into MotherhoodWebsite: www.speakinglife.co/motherhoodEmail: [email protected] Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural SupportEmail Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplanDisclaimerThe views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

How do you respond when your child is having a meltdown and you feel yourself getting triggered? Do you find yourself asking "Why?" or do you shift to asking "How do I survive this moment?" When you're in your "shark waters" - those moments when your own past wounds get activated by your child's behavior - what physical sensations do you notice in your body? Are you more focused on correcting your child's behavior or connecting with their heart? How might shifting this focus change your famil...

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