#228: Why It’s Ok to Let Children Struggle (And Why That Is Not the Same as Suffering)

When we talk about letting children struggle, it often makes people uncomfortable. And for good reason. No one wants children to suffer.But struggle and suffering are not the same thing.In this episode of The Everything ECE Podcast, Carla Ward unpacks what productive struggle actually looks like in early childhood and why those everyday moments—wrestling with a shoe, rebuilding a block tower, trying again after something doesn’t work—matter more than we think.Drawing on classroom experience, research on grit and perseverance, and over two decades in early childhood education, Carla explores how confidence is built through experience, not rescue.This episode invites educators to pause, observe, and rethink when to step in—and when stepping back is the most supportive thing we can do.Because letting children struggle isn’t about withholding support. It’s about trusting the learning process.SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWIf you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more ECEs who are in the thick of it!. Thanks for tuning in to The Everything ECE.  See you next week! shape their early years.CONNECT WITH CARLAThe ECE Latte LoungeEmail Newsletter: ⁠⁠Click Here⁠Website: carlatheece.comInstagram: @carlatheece