23. Healing After Sexual Betrayal (With Special Guest Stacey Oliver)

What happens when the person you trust most becomes the source of your deepest pain? In Episode 23 of Return to Heart, Phil sits down with Stacey Oliver of Awaken Recovery to discuss betrayal trauma, recovery after sexual addiction, attachment wounds, codependency, and the long road toward healing. Drawing from her own story, Stacey shares what it felt like to discover hidden betrayal, why so many partners ignore their intuition, and how healing often begins by finding safe people who understand your pain. Whether you're navigating betrayal yourself, supporting someone who is, or trying to understand how trauma impacts relationships, this conversation offers hope, wisdom, and practical insight.In this episode: • Why betrayal by "your person" hurts so deeply • The role of denial and self-protection in relationships • How attachment wounds shape our choices • What betrayal trauma feels like physically and emotionally • Why healing requires community and support • How recovery can create healthier relationships than before Resources:Awaken Recovery https://awakenrecovery.com What We Really Want podcast https://awakenrecovery.com/podcast Roots Retreat: Men’s Recovery Intensives and Women’s Workshops https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives Tin Man provides coaching, mentoring, consulting, and offers guidance to those who want to recover the life they've lost and discover the life they desire, by learning to live from the heart. Learn More: www.tinman.org