23 | It’s Time to Let the Old You Die: Receive Freedom in Christ and Live Authentically You (The New You)

You know those habits you really want to break — the patterns that seem stuck on repeat, even though you love Jesus and want to change? In today’s episode, we’re diving into Ephesians 4:17–32, where Paul gives us a powerful roadmap for living a transformed life in Christ. This isn’t about behavior modification — it’s about renewing your mind, putting off the old self, and putting on the new one that’s created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. I’m sharing a funny middle school story (involving a not-so-great word choice 😅) and how it taught me that being a new creation isn’t just about what we don’t do — it’s about what we do put on. In This Episode: 💭 1. Renewing Your Thinking (Ephesians 4:17–19) Paul reminds us not to live — or think — like the world. Transformation begins in the mind. We’ll unpack how your thoughts shape your actions and how to develop a renewed mindset grounded in truth. 🧠 2. Putting Off the Old Self (Ephesians 4:20–24) Through Christ, you’ve been empowered to lay down your old patterns and step into a new way of living. Renewal is a daily process — and the Holy Spirit gives you the ability to walk in true righteousness and holiness. ✨ 3. Getting Specific: What to Put Off and What to Put On (Ephesians 4:25–32) Paul lists what needs to go — and what should replace it: Put off falsehood → speak truth Put off anger → forgive quickly Put off stealing → work and give Put off unwholesome talk → build others up Put off bitterness and malice → choose kindness and compassion Living this way protects unity, honors God, and keeps your heart sensitive to the Holy Spirit. 💜 4. Living a Transformed Life God’s goal isn’t better behavior — it’s a renewed heart. Holiness isn’t striving; it’s living out who you already are in Christ. Every day, you get to choose what to put off and what to put on. Reflection Questions What “old self” habit or mindset is God asking you to put off this week? What does “putting on the new self” look like for you — in your words, work, or relationships? How can you invite the Holy Spirit to renew your mind daily? Scripture References Ephesians 4:17–32 Romans 12:2 Listen if you’re craving: Practical ways to grow in spiritual maturity Help breaking old habits or patterns Encouragement to renew your mind A deeper understanding of what it means to live as a new creation in Christ Resources & Links ✨ Join the Trust God, Be Confident Community → bit.ly/tgbcinsider