241 ASMR Make Out

She's on the kid. You is back and you is on the timer. She is not going to let us talk to you. She is like, I have a purpose when I am coming back.

And she's just like, you motherfucker is not too much. She's no kid like this. And she's been gone for like ever. And she's like, um, it's time that I came and brought it correctly.

I listened to the show. I don't think she does. I think she just wants us to shut up is what the thing is. Well, can you blame her?

We talk too much. Please set the timer for 20 minutes and let us know. We got an entire group of people here, Cathy. It isn't an entire group of people, which I wish I had prepared the other thing that I was going to prepare, because we had so many people.

But we don't. But we do have a big fat fucking sexy show. Number 242. Two?

Two? Two? Two? Two?

Two? Two? One? Yeah.

I thought I was going to squinty. One? Are you guys ready to do whatever goddamn number show this is? Woo!

All right, let's do show. The following show is for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is advised. And if you don't like it, please go fuck yourself.

One, two, three, four. Do you feel your sex life is quite lame? Lame. Scared that your desires might be strained.

I'm going to come and join the kicky world of play. And I'm gonna. Hello and welcome to the perverted podcast. The show where we talk about the adventures of sexuality.

Do you forget the intro? No, I was just trying. Yeah, I did. Totally dead.

See the adventures of lifestyle is actually kicking. Yeah, take a kick. Thanks. Recording live from Tony's fucking castle in front of our perverted studio audience.

Hello, perverts. Hello. I'm Kathy. I am Count Boogie.

And over here we have Bunner, Captain, Awesome fucking Tony. Mel. No, I'm not fucking Tony. No, you're not fucking shut up.

Kathy's dreams. We got whiskers. Whiskers hasn't been here in a long, long time. And then of course we got Delon and Nigma and some magic.

Kathy. Delon and Nigma are behind me and they make me very nervous. Well, you should see the stuff there at the face. Stop it.

Del's going to come. We're about to have an anger. Delon and Nigma. Yeah, at least Del's not going to breathe on your neck.

Well, he might. I might. Yeah, they might. I'm training.

They might. Remember when creepy is to breathe on you? My name is creepy. Remember Uncle creepy.

Uncle creepy if you're hearing this. You need to take a visit out to LA. No, no, no. He listened.

Do you want me to breathe on the back of your neck? It doesn't make you feel connected to this. That would be wonderful, Nigma. Could you just come up here and breathe?

No. No, no, no. No, no. He's got a weird grin on his face.

He actually scares people. It's a combination of creepy and ungrateful. Not a misnseless one. Crunger?

Crunger? Yes. Crunger. It's a new style of music.

Oh, my God. So, Kathy, do you have the list? Oh, you do have the list. OK, I'm just going to turn your phone.

Why? Because you have the list. You didn't make out the printing list. Oh, there it is.

There it is. Oh, yeah. Yeah, there was a few things. Awkward sibling puppy play.

What did you do this time? OK, those are, no, that's awkward sibling puppy. Well, Mew has a sister. And I might have caught a hint because they're very playful together.

Her and her sister, they've got that lovey-dovey family where they all hug each other. And like that weird shit that you and I don't get. I do, but I'm going to warn you to tread lightly here. Because I think I know where you're going with this.

No, no, it wasn't bad. OK. It was non-sexual. Oh, all right.

I did not do anything sexual with Mew's goddamn sister. But it's because we're kinky on this side. We can see hints and tips to when somebody maybe has some sort of, not even a kink, which is a fetish or a personality or something. So it'd be like, excuse me, your kink is showing.

Exactly. But they don't know it because they're not in the lifestyle. They haven't had time to develop. Because you're experienced pervert.

You see it. And this was one of those moments. And let me tell you, it was good because Mew's eyes only bugged out of her fucking skull by about a foot instead of the normal three feet if she didn't trust me. So they're kind of rough housing.

Her and her sister is goof off and wrestle and stuff. And they're cuddling and whatever. And I notice in her sister, these are puppy personalities. These are straight up puppy personalities.

And we do pet polynopit play. And so all of a sudden I'm like, hmm. And so of course the sister's like, bark bark. And if she makes some bark.

And I'm like, oh, you're a good little puppy. And she's like, bark bark bark bark. And all of a sudden instantly Mew just looks at me. Because she knows what I'm doing.

And I'm like, no, it's the play. Not all of our play, both age play, little puppy play, pet play. They aren't always sexual. Sometimes it's just being able to let go in that space and just enjoy being an animal or a little or something like that.

And there's very distinct lines. There's a lot of pets that don't do any type of sexual play. And there's a lot of little that don't do any type of sexual play. So I said, well, I just wanted to poke and see if she was at the playful side.

Because obviously it's her sister. And even though I would, you know, that's kind of off limits. So whatever. So I'm a pig.

I would do the whole family. What are you talking about? I have a nice equal opportunity to go. So I went and got a rag.

And I rolled it up. And I said, oh, I bet if I had held this up, you would play tug-of-war with me. And all of a sudden her face lights up. And she goes, and I go, and I put it by her mouth.

And she goes, rah, she grabs it. She starts tugging. And I go, I got puppy. I was like, oh my god.

What? She's hiding her face right now. And that's all behind her eyes. She didn't say these things.

And so it was very, just literally like a minute, you know? And just play it. And then I go the rag. And then she shook her head.

And then I pulled tugged again. Couple of tugged. Couple of tug of wars. And that was it.

And from my point of view, obviously everyone knows me as a sexual pervert. And that obviously I want to fuck everybody. But there is a side of me that's like, I just want to let people kind of have an experience and then be supported in that. You're facilitating.

You're facilitating. Because who knows if she gets to explore that side of herself innocently anywhere else? I will say that a lot of people have that part of them that is there naturally. They don't have to worry about it.

But they suppress it when you become an adult. And it's surprisingly easy for that part to come out if you have someone who lets it out. If there's an environment. And they don't consider it a fetish or kink.

They just allow that childish play to part out. There's so many things that we do. Like they have these things like mutter things, where everyone goes and does this obstacle course through the mud. Oh, yeah.

Tough mutter. Whatever the fuck that shit. So it's like it's OK to play in the mud as long as you do it with this like adult spin. Our culture plays nothing but games.

We have footballs and baseballs. And we do things in jet skis. And it's all about, well, this is OK to do. But it's all play.

And it's all play. And it's so sad that we have to categorize what type of play people can be open with. And that they can't just be silly and crayon in color. And we talked about this in the show.

So it was kind of fun just to see that. And I didn't have an opportunity to kind of give that little encouragement. Like, hey, this is great. You get to be silly and whatever.

But they already have that relationship. So I just thought it was great. And after Mu's been looking at me sideways ever since, she's all, don't you try to fuck my sister. And I'm like, I just told him.

She's got a banjo. She's all denying in here. You're there, you're there, you're there. Chug a moonshine and daddy's double barrel shotgun there.

I will blast another asshole in you. You fuck my sister. Your sister doesn't want me. I mean, everyone does.

But she had to tell me that today. She said, by the way, Boogie, you know everyone doesn't want you, right? She said that to me. She said that to me.

Did you believe it? That's a whole other conversation. No, it doesn't matter. Sometimes you need to be brought down and not your two.

She knows when that time comes. I think do people really think that I think that everybody somehow wants me? I think you behave as if you think. That's what I do.

I don't think you think that is the confidence. I totally accept the rejection. But yeah, and I understand that not every lot of people don't want me. But I also understand that if you present yourself to somebody who's not used to what you possess, then you're going to get more yeses than no.

So this is just part. No, it means laughing. Oh, she's just laughing at me. Oh, well, she does that all the time.

Doesn't matter. And you're used to it. So there you go. So what else?

What else is there? I would like to read the message you left me on the phone. Because I want people to understand that this is indicative of the crazy I get from this man every time that we speak on the phone. Apparently, I just said that.

Which message is this? I was at Creative Explorers, and I was in the next room and hear the phone go off, and then I come back. Is this the one I left on the poster? Is this the one?

Oh, you left me a phone message, Mr. Man. Half asleep. This is how it goes.

Kathy, I hope you're getting dick right now. You should be getting dick. Go get the dick. Lots of dick.

Hear ye, hear ye, dick dick. Ditch or all. But mostly for Kathy. I will talk to you soon, and I love you.

Happy Saturday. Get the dick. Kathy. OK.

I did not get the dick. What? I'm still, you know, I willed the dick for you. You should not do the proper dick chance.

I don't know. Are you sure you got to tell your goddamn right? Probably not. Are you sure you didn't mess up with her getting the dick?

Wow. You guys are so negative. You done jinxed the dick. I didn't.

I didn't jinxed the dick. I actually didn't. I was still sick on Friday when I went to Creative Explorers. Too sick for dick.

I told him, I can't do any power exchange this weekend. I'd love to see you, but I just don't want to. And he's like, you know what? Just come over.

We'll watch movies. And I said, go and have some popcorn. And he said, yeah, we have popcorn. And he was actually surprisingly uncreative explorer-ish.

You mean he actually shared the ice cream sandwich with you instead of letting it melt and fucking well it melted. He melted one for me too. Oh, that is very nice. I got to wear my comfy clothes and it was nice.

He was like sure that the heat was turned up. And so I just start to feel better this weekend, but no dick. Boogie. Thank you though for the sentiment.

I appreciated it. Can I be honest? You just read that? I have no recollection of sending that.

I mean, it sounds totally. It sounds totally. So I walk in the door tonight and I'm like, Boogie, I feel so bad. You left me this message.

And I heard it. I thought, oh, how funny. And I laughed. I got a call boogie back.

I totally forgot. And you had this blank look on your face like, what? I got a little message. I got a little message.

No, it sounds like something I would say. Absolutely. But yeah, it just goes out. And I think about you.

And I'm like, you should be getting dick. So that's obviously that's that theme. Did you see the other thing? I don't know.

One time you almost ate worms in an apple or something. Yeah, this was worse. Oh, god. This was because this was after.

Do you want me to hear this? He's a good gross me out of his face. Look at Newsface. Look at Newsface.

Oh, no. He just totally has her face. Yeah. And if it wasn't for Nicole Kidman, if it wasn't for Nicole Kidman, I would have a totally different attitude right now.

OK. Totally different attitude. Let me tell you this story. I just actually want to prepare myself.

I want to hear when I hear this. No, not really. I mean, it's just Nicole Kidman. Nicole Kidman.

OK. Beautiful. She's not British. I think she's Australian.

She's Australian. She's Australian. OK, yeah, yeah. Anyway, she's gorgeous.

And she did a video once, I don't know, recently, where this is Nicole Kidman classy, super classy. And she's like a billion humans on Earth eat bugs, and I'm one of them. Oh, my god. And she did.

And this is Nicole Kidman. How baller is this? Did a whole thing on the insects people eat. And then she's like, and these worms taste really good.

And right there, fucking Nicole Kidman's one that was married to Tom Coos, right? OK, good. Yes, that one. Yeah.

So just need to know. I don't want to preach the wrong name. And then she did. And she's like, ah, and I'm totally in love with this woman.

I totally, Nicole, I love you. You're a baller. I wouldn't want to kiss you right now. But I am totally, totally impressed.

I had to ask. How amazing. Were they alive? Yes.

And well, there's cooked bugs and whatever. And if it wasn't for that video, what? I have a video up. You do have the video?

Can you put that on Discord for the kids? Can I ask what was the reason for doing that? I think what it is is to de-stigmatize because that's a lot of cultures, and especially a lot of poorer cultures. That's their only method of protein, is you have the different bugs and things like that.

And they know which ones are good and which ones are bad. And so I kind of de-stigmatize maybe and say, hey, this is a normal, you eat cows and chickens and all this other shit. Some people eat bugs. Why are you looking down on them or something like that?

Whatever it was, it was pretty hardcore. It was almost as hardcore as Martha Stewart going to prison, even though it was federal prison. But still, more hardcore. You can buy bug chips at Ralph's right now.

That is amazing. Oh, I'm like so lucky. So in the spirit of that, Mu's mom has this glass jar. And she always puts walnuts and then she has one that has raisins in it.

It's one of those sealed, like sealed, the old fashioned cooking with the big wire that wraps around it. And you click it over, like, I don't know, jelly. What in the world are you talking about? So she keeps walnuts in there.

And I always feel like guilt, because it's like, those aren't my walnuts and walnuts are expensive. So I'll eat some. And then it's like, I remember once I went bought a bag of walnuts and replaced the walnuts. So I feel like I'm not being a bad guest, because I'm nuts like that.

That's just copying a good guess. There's nothing wrong with that. Good. Thank you, because Mu gave me a hard time about it.

So I don't know. I guess a couple months went by. And this thing sealed. But walnuts have this one nasty little habit, because they have so many crevices in them.

And so I don't know. I'm pretty sure it was last week. I went and got, you know, and they kind of got a lot of dust on them and stuff like that. So I shook them off and threw in a couple and ate a couple and whatever went on with my life.

Is there anything I can do to stop you right now? No. So last night. You could leave the house.

Well, that's the worst of it. You're laughing in the break his brain. So last night, I'm like, well, I want some walnuts. And I look in, and I go, OK, and now remember I'm blind.

I really have bad eyesight of a lot of problems with my eyes. We're bifocals and even those. Look, what did you eat? Well, it's not that I ate the bug this time.

But obviously, I ate them last week. Because this week, I go, oh, and I stick my hand in to get a scoop of nuts and outcomes, nothing but silk webbing. An entire thing of silk webbing. And I'm like, what is there a spider in here?

And I hold it up to me and use like, there are grubs all over that. Little teeny worms are making their cocoons in this thing. And there's literally like 50 of them. And I'm like, huh, and it just occurs to me.

I ate these last week. These, I ate a handful of these last week. And now they must have said, well, we better hurry up and get cocoon before this dipshitty to more of us. And you lied to me.

I said, is this going to make me hurl? You want me to hold out my hands? How kind? That is so disgusting.

Why would worms just un or grubs whatever they automatically want? Because obviously, nuts are very nutritious to creators. And walnuts, once you shell them, they have all those crevices. You know how they look like a brain.

So they have all these convoluted crevices. So it's real easy. They don't wash every nut after they crack them in the thing. So walnuts can have a tendency to pick up a worm or an egg, some eggs or something like that.

Why did I ask the question? Stop right now. So apparently a clutch of eggs got in there and decided to flourish. And thank you so much.

So with Nicole Kidman, I had because literally the second I said, obviously I ate worms. Word of the day. Clutch. Clutch.

A clutch of eggs. Clutch of eggs. A clutch of eggs. Thank you, Captain.

So yeah, so I didn't eat the nuts last night. And you, of course, who's going to be a doctor? And wants to do ER surgery. Even she wanted to hurl.

And I'm like, I'm the one that ate them. And if it was, and all I saw was Nicole Kidman's face. And I'm like, well, I can't be a pussy. I can't just be a fucking Nicole Kidman.

Got up there and fucking ate them. And I'm just like, all right, whatever, that sucks. I didn't really, I wasn't consensual, but you know, OK, look, I'm not dead. And I just shoved down any squick that might have occurred.

Swell down that vials. Swell is just going on with life. Just went on with my silly little life, Gather. That's it.

Oh, oh, I asked. And you got no dick. What else got it? What are we timer at?

Mew. Wow, we really need to show up more. Shouldn't we ask others? Del, I believe, has some more mayhem.

Yes. What's going on? Well, I'm doing a Pokemon Nuzlocke. What?

It's a thing where you only catch one Pokemon per route. It's harder. So I'm doing masochism in my games now. You're going out playing Pokemon Go, but only catch one.

I was comparing a Pokemon Go, like the actual console game. I went to a concert that Uncle could not, in his stead. He looked, but deviled into pup space, because there was quite a bit of howling. So that was good.

I can't even think about that. We're going to howl with new sister next week. OK. The look.

And I have a new laptop. And I installed 228 games onto it. Tell me. No.

Why not more? Because that's my cue right now. I don't want to add to it. Oh, my god.

So that's everything on same amount of the 800 something that I actually have on my account. Kathy, perverts and nerds. Just remember that. Apparently so.

Perverts and nerds, gamer and nerds. I'm so sick of the game. You're dick. Yeah.

But that's it. You get dick. You're a gamer. Captain Awesome, you gamer.

I am indeed a gamer. Bonner. Bonner, are you game? Yeah.

Tony, Tony's an engineer, so a guy and a guy. Shake it his head. Last game I gamed was Tetris. That is a good choice.

But you do nerd shit. Yeah, but I don't get it. Mew had to take a statistics class for some shit. And literally, the boner that fucking nerd boy, Anthony, got literally just saw it rip out of his pants.

And he literally went and got in his face and started asking her statistics questions. So do you know what this is? Do you know what this is? And they had this whole communion.

Now we're just got the wrap aside. We have the wrap up. Shut up. All right.

Really? We want to hear the rest of that. So Tony's an nerd, too. Everyone else is a gamer.

Tony's boner exploding out of him. That was the story. I mean, I get to get it off. Exploding boner.

It's a club. Fit life is the place. And our genitals hold you in subspace. We share our kinket thrills.

Perverts from around the world. Yeah. We're voting for our gas talking about that life motherfucker. For your piece of mind, please know that stop robbing yourself.

Got your nipples and your balls. We've got the full load for five seconds. Can't you control yourself while I'm sitting here across from you? I mean, because all I have now get your fingers out of my face.

Do what? Do you prefer that I rub my nipples? Oh, Windell doesn't. It's cute.

It's adorable. I can rub my nipples. Well, that's just gorgeous. I'll rub our nipples.

Everybody rub nipples. Hey, Kelly. Hey. That's it.

That's it. If you got a. I can't affect it. I can't.

It's true. Everybody. Everybody. Very good.

You're welcome. You're welcome. See, I want to turn the show more into rocky horror. Like I want to say.

And those are all and then everyone turns and starts rubbing each other's nipples. So does it make you frank have fun? Probably. Probably.

But it doesn't work. If you put on fish and stockings, I'll be the happiest person on the planet. I wore your granny panties last week. On your head.

As a joke. by Zara 180, Zara is a returning author who has allowed us to use a couple of her posts. And actually you recommended this. This is the one, I'm like wait a minute, I've read this.

I know this topic. She wrote a post called I Am Not Really A Slett, I Just Play One In The Bedroom. She says, I am not a woman with many casual sexual partners, not even close. My body count is still in the single digits.

Making the statement seems an awful like virtue signaling. Oh look at me, I am discerning, I have morals, my pussy is sparkling clean. And while that is all very true, I don't know how much that has to do with my non-slut hood. I have that demisexual thing going on.

If I don't feel a connection, I don't feel sustainably sexual. I don't feel connected to many people in general. And it is rare that I need a man that I want to go on a date with much less have sex with. Now here she talks about describing what her ideal situation is the ideal person.

She says, we develop trust and affection for one another. I feel comfortable. And when I feel comfortable, I can be incredibly uninhibited. This is where the slut comes out to play.

The woman who will do anything and will love every fucking second of it. Is this really sluttiness? I really don't know or do I care? I understand the power of the word slut.

And I understand the way that that word has been used and misused to keep women sexually in line. I understand it because that is the world I grew up in. The world in which the teen girl who had sex with her steady boyfriend was labeled a slut. The world in which the woman who had sex outside of a committed relationship, who had sex because damn it, she was horny and gasps she likes it was labeled a slut.

That world still exists for me. But in that world, I am most definitely and happily a slut. Full plop. Full plop.

Full plop. Prabha. Prabha. Indeed.

Full hat. Yes. Look, even smatterings from the audience. Thanks for tagging that one.

That's a good one. I love this for so many reasons. Because it just spurs so many things for me. Where it's like you get angry at once again how we've just dragged ourselves constantly away from our social and psychological evolution by creating these negative ways to program people, to control parts of them that are none of our business.

You understand? It's like there's no social benefit. Like if somebody wants to do all sorts of crazy sexual things in their private sex life, how does it affect you? If people want to suck dick, if they have a dick, or eat a vag, if they have a vag, whatever they want to do, it's just you get angry at what a waste of time it is.

I mean, absolutely. There's a lot of words that in the regular everyday living of life that most Americans have, these words are very used derogatorily. And so what slut and pussy are words that you're used to, and purr, and in the community, for the most part, I've heard most everybody embrace those words. They embrace.

Little badges of honor for us. Exactly. Yes. But I thought it was funny that even within that world, the word slut, she didn't feel like she really could own it.

Because she says at some point in the post, even within the fat community, I guess I would be considered a virginal almost. Because I don't have sex with a lot of men. So it's like reverse peer pressure. You know, pressure.

It is peer pressure. If you're going to label yourself a slut, you better damn well be having sex with a lot of people. And so I kind of, this is the kind of post that I absolutely would have tagged, because I feel very much that every time that you and I sit down to do to record the show, you tell me of so many different partners, the crazy ass. Shit, you guys did, and you invited this new person, and this other new person might come in.

And here I've got creative explorer. And I don't really venture out of that too much. Not because I don't want to, but because I'm also demisexual and I find it hard to make a connection with people. And yet, I consider myself a very sexual person.

I don't consider myself a slut, because I just don't. You're a shy, ganner slut. You're like a ganner slut. You're like a ganner slut.

How are you? You're like that spin internal, the flames coming out of your holes and shit, slut. This is like a god's circle. I did.

I did. I did. I did. I did.

You could use right now. I did. Shut up. I did.

And here's the reason I did, because this is a perfect example. Because you still, the body count is so insignificant. I mean, it's absolutely, if you have different people, then you get to enjoy their different dynamics. And so that's great.

And maybe you try things, because this person maybe is curious about this. And surely, this has been my case, where I've never done much of that. But they're into it. And I'm like, oh, I'm down.

Let's try it. And that's wonderful. But every week, you still come in with different headspace stories, different ways you interact. You still have all sorts of slutty different.

Just because the body count, I just. No, no, I get what you're saying. We do discuss a lot of de-sish things that I have going on in my life and the ramifications when things go wrong. I don't disagree with you.

But the word slut has to do in my mind, basically, with sex. And I have sex with one person. It is very. But it's slutty sex.

I mean, actually, the discussion we're having is actually very telling, because that's what she's talking about. Everybody has a different definition of sex. I don't consider it a slutty. I guess there's an adjective.

Well, so check me out. I'm going to go grammatical here. The dictionary. Everybody, prepare yourselves.

You've been to go grammatical. Before Del goes, it gives us the grammar. I consider this to be something that can be either an adjective or a noun, meaning that you can be a slut in your actions basically because you do wild, crazy stuff, and you're uninhibited and you try all sorts of crazy, sexual things just because it's with one partner, doesn't matter. You can still be a total fucking slut.

Like, this poster is saying, but not have a lot of partners. And then there's maybe the noun, slut, a person who's promiscuous and has a lot. That's true. Del?

Yeah, I was going to say the definition of Webster's dictionary is a promiscuous woman, a woman who has many sexual partners. Yeah, so taking it, it's most literal and it's actual definition that is it. And yet, it's the same way pervert. We embrace the word pervert, at least I do.

I am a pervert. I'm sure Webster would just say somebody who abuses kids. Something derogatory like that. But I think that's what makes our lifestyle fun, because we've done this with a lot of words, like brat.

Brat, can you look up brat in Webster's? I'm going to assume it's probably the derogatory towards a spoiled child that acts like shit, and you should probably lie to one. And an annoying child. Thank you very much.

Well, I am ill-mannered in a week. Yes, it is. But you are not a child. But also, or person.

The second definition is an ill-mannered person. Oh, I like that. Then I could very much be the very definition of a brat. But what Webster doesn't define is the fun, playful, interactive, yet knowing your limit and when it's disrespectful and when it's fun and what you have discussed in the dynamics of your power exchange brat.

And that's what we bring to the table. And with the word sled, I think we do the exact same thing. That our lifestyle, we have a lifestyle in a community, specifically, to explore things that other people have said. It's only this way.

And we've done this with dominance. We've done this with submission. We've surely done it with what is a switch. All of these different terms, gender, and all of these different things.

In our sex positive lifestyle, whatever you want to call this thing that we're a part of, we get to take all of these words that Webster and the outside world say, it is this and only this. And we get to say, no, no, it can be so much more. And that is what that is the difference between a slut and a non-slut. A non-slut doesn't take risks in their sexuality.

But in my opinion, yeah. It's not necessarily bad to eat something that they like this one thing. And that's how I'm just doing it. I would like to know of the women in this room, how many of you would describe yourself as a slutty and embrace that word?

One, two, three, three out of four. Now then, if you can. And there's a microphone you can't actually always asleep. Repeat the question.

Would you consider yourself a slut? Do you embrace that word? And you should kind of struggle. Do you guys want to comment on that?

We have a microphone. Anyone know? No, no, no. Mule?

Mule, mule, mule, mule, mule. That's right. That's right. I think this is exciting because this is a conversation that I wish we were taking outside of the community.

And that's one of the things we have a podcast for, is the hope is that people will kind of wander in from the outside and be able to see that a lot of the point of view is, which, I mean, God, we can talk about kink, impact placement, every aspect of BDSM and kink, when we came into the lifestyle, at least when I came into the lifestyle, it was each definition was so much more narrow. And how amazing it's been in these 11 years that I've been around that like literally so many, so many things that I thought, well, this means this. And obviously that doesn't work for me because I'm not that. And so many conversations, so many thousands of conversations and not just the show, but just all of my interactions with people in the community and talking about this.

What an amazing thing to be able to not be burdened by saying, oh, well, this means that. So obviously my life's gonna suffer because of it. That's true. Very true, buddy.

I like it a lot. Yeah, yeah, thumbs up. Did we cure being a slut? Stop saying.

Why would we wanna care? I love being a slut. Good. Enigma's a slut.

Do you identify as a slut? I mean, yes. I mean, why did I say just the way I was? Yeah, you didn't.

Yeah, just the way I was. I wasn't even a flint about that. They're all, yeah, you. You are a slut.