242. How To Write A Standout Letter Of Recommendation

The aspect of a college application that lies most outside an applicant's control is the recommendation. How can recommendation writers and requesters alike get this essential piece right? Amy and Mike invited author Becky Munsterer Sabky to explain how to write a standout letter of recommendation. What are five things you will learn in this episode? What makes a standout recommendation? Who can or should write college recommendations? What should a recommender ask of the applicant (and vice versa) to make writing a recommendation easier? Is it okay to turn down a recommendation request?  Should applicants waive their right to read their recommendations? MEET OUR GUEST Becky Munsterer Sabky likes to communicate. She's an author, columnist, speaker (and handwritten letter writer). Her work has appeared in the New York Times, the Boston Globe Magazine, Reader's Digest, and SKI Magazine. She's been interviewed on Vermont Public Radio and Boston Public Radio and is currently on a speaking tour for her book Valedictorians at the Gate. She's a graduate of Colby College and received her M.A.L.S. degree in creative writing from Dartmouth. When Becky was a high school senior she was rejected by her dream school, Dartmouth. She had done everything right. Checked every box. Played on every team. And yet still she received, "the thin envelope." A decade later she was the one helping to make the admissions decisions for the Ivy League university. Drawing back the curtain, Valedictorians at the Gate is a behind-the-scenes look at how best to prepare for the admissions process, from the first day of high school to welcome weekend on campus, with the needed perspective to stay true to yourself and discover your passions as you battle the other valedictorians at the gate. Written with actionable advice (do take the SATs multiple times; don't write your college essay about Hermione Granger), Valedictorians at the Gate answers the questions of just who to ask for a college recommendation (a note from a janitor will turn more heads than a form letter from the chair of the math department), just what to do on-campus visits (have the student ask the questions, not their mom and dad), and what curriculum to take (if you like art, go for it over AP physics). This is the book every student and parent wishes to have by their side as they navigate the immensely competitive, and confusing, process of selecting a college. Perfect for both prospective students and (hopefully-not-helicoptering) parents, Sabky infuses her wisdom gleaned from years making the tough admissions decisions with illuminating anecdotes of her time as an Ivy League gatekeeper. Parents and students will find relief, and advice that cuts through the confusion and intimidation of applying to college and places the power firmly in the hands of the applicant. A college doesn't choose you, you choose it.  Find Becky at https://beckysabky.com/. LINKS Valedictorians at the Gate: Standing Out, Getting In, and Staying Sane While Applying to College RELATED EPISODES LETTERS OF RECOMMENDATION: GOOD VS. GREAT THE MAKING CARING COMMON PROJECT  DEMONSTRATING LEADERSHIP IN COLLEGE APPLICATIONS ABOUT THIS PODCAST Tests and the Rest is THE college admissions industry podcast. Explore all of our episodes on the show page.