243 - How Men’s Groups Can Transform Men & Reduce Violence

Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Can changing how men relate to one another reduce gender-based violence?In this powerful international conversation, Boysen sits down with South African researchers Nicola Lazenby and Thaakirah Dollie, who conducted an in-depth qualitative study exploring how men’s relationships with other men influence their understanding of masculinity and mental health.Set against the backdrop of South Africa’s gender-based violence crisis—where femicide rates are among the highest in the world—their research examines two distinct patterns of male bonding:🔹 Hierarchical HomosocialityCompetition and dominanceEmotional suppressionAvoidance of vulnerabilityAggression and status-seekingThis pattern reinforces rigid masculinity and is linked to diminished mental health and relational harm.🔹 Horizontal HomosocialityCollaboration and mutual accountabilityEmotional intimacy and safetyShared agreements and trustAuthentic vulnerabilityThis model—found in structured men’s groups like those in the ManKind Project—was associated with increased well-being, deeper connection, and healthier expressions of masculinity.The conversation also explores:Early socialization of boys through fathers and peer groupsThe systemic legacy of violence in South AfricaWhy compassion and accountability must coexistFatherhood as a turning point for many menWhat it means to create healing cultural changeThis episode is both sobering and hopeful. It reminds us that while masculinity is socially constructed, it is not fixed. And that how men gather matters. Hearing the call? We're here. https://mkpusa.org BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the show