244: Negotiating Best Outcomes in Divorce Through More Holistic Practices Than The Traditional Way

Divorce is often seen as a battle—a contentious and emotionally draining process that leaves both parties wounded. In today's conversation, we'll explore this transformative approach to divorce negotiations, challenging the traditional adversarial mindset. We'll delve into how a more compassionate and comprehensive strategy can lead to better outcomes for everyone involved, from navigating complex financial matters to addressing the nuanced emotional and mental health aspects of a split.   In this episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, the Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, to discuss how to negotiate the best outcomes in divorce through more holistic practices than the traditional approach. As a distinguished matrimonial attorney, Certified Financial Litigator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Lisa specializes in handling complex financial and custody matters, as well as pre- and post-nuptial agreements for high-net-worth individuals. Recognized multiple times on Crain's New York lists and honored as a Hudson Valley Best Lawyer, Lisa brings a wealth of expertise to this conversation. She is also a prolific writer on the intersection of legal and mental health issues in divorce, with contributions to Psychology Today, Financial Advisor Magazine, and Forbes Business Council. Join us as we explore her insights on transforming divorce negotiations with a more comprehensive and empathetic approach.   In this episode, you will learn:   What are some of the mistakes that people make before asking for a divorce? What kind of things should go on that divorce financial checklist? What is financial abuse? Different types of financial abuse Prenuptial agreements How to negotiate your mindset to have a better experience when handling a divorce. The role emotion and creativity plays in the negotiation.   Learn more about Lisa: Website: https://lisazeiderman.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisa.zeiderman.3/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisazeiderman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisazeiderman/   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you. Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email:  [email protected]