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249. Good Girls Finish Last (How to Stop People-Pleasing and Start Living) with Elise Loehnen

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If you’ve ever felt like you’re living life on someone else’s terms—constantly trying to be “good,” small, or palatable—this episode will change everything. I sat down with return guest Elise Loehnen, bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior and her new workbook Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness, to talk about how to actually like your life, your body, and yourself. We dig into how cultural “good girl” conditioning and stories about money, envy, success, and our bodies hold us back, and how to start rewriting those scripts into ones that feel true to who you are. Elise shares powerful insights on fear, intuition, and envy—and how embracing wholeness over perfection can free us to live more authentic lives. Elise’s links: Website: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ To get more resources including any freebies mentioned in this episode, head to https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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