251 - Stop Fighting Each Other: Start Fighting for Your Relationship with Rich & Laurie Riedman

Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). What does it actually take to build a strong, lasting relationship?In this episode, Boysen sits down with Rich and Laurie Riedman—veterans of the ManKind Project and leaders in couples work for over three decades. Together, they explore the deeper mechanics of relationship growth, conflict, and connection.At the heart of their work is a powerful idea: a relationship is not just two people—it’s a third entity that must be nurtured, strengthened, and protected.Rich and Laurie break down: Why many relationships hit a turning point around the 7-year mark  How unconscious patterns from childhood show up in partnership  The concept of the relationship as a “container” for growth  Why conflict isn’t the problem—but how we approach it is  The shift from “me vs. you” to “us vs. the issue”  Practical tools for communication, emotional safety, and repair They also share simple daily practices that can transform connection—like eye gazing, intentional touch, gratitude rituals, and recognizing emotional bids for attention.Whether you’re in a thriving relationship, feeling disconnected, or navigating real challenges, this conversation offers grounded insight and practical tools to deepen intimacy and understanding.This isn’t about fixing your partner.It’s about showing up differently—together.Find them: https://www.acouplesweekend.com/ Hearing the call? We're here. https://mkpusa.org BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the show