EPISODE · Mar 11, 2026 · 1H 9M
257. How To Have A 20 Minute Orgasm with Susan Bratton
from Honeydew Me · host Emma Norman & Cass Anderson
Vulvas and vaginas aren't complicated or mysterious, we've just never been properly taught how to pleasure them. Until now. In this episode, we’re joined by Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, educator, and longtime advocate for pleasure-forward sex education. Together we break down the anatomy of female arousal, the full erectile tissue system in the vulva, and why so many people misunderstand what our bodies actually need to experience deep pleasure. We talk about why arousal takes time, how the body physically changes during sexual stimulation, and why expanding our understanding of pleasure anatomy can completely transform the sexual experience for both partners. If you’ve ever wondered why foreplay matters so much, why stimulation can feel different depending on arousal levels, or how to create more pleasure in partnered sex, this conversation is for you Honey Bun. We Cover: The vulva’s erectile tissue system. Why arousal involves far more anatomy than just the clitoris and how engorgement changes sensation. How arousal physically changes the body. What actually happens to the vulva and vaginal tissues during sexual stimulation and why time and blood flow matter. Why many people with vulvas struggle to feel enough stimulation during sex. How misunderstandings about pleasure anatomy can lead to rushed arousal and less pleasurable experiences. The role of engorgement in pleasure. Why the body needs time and stimulation for tissues to swell and become more sensitive. How to build stronger arousal before penetration. Why extended stimulation and touch can dramatically change sensation and comfort. Understanding different pleasure pathways. How different types of stimulation activate different parts of the vulva and internal erectile tissue system. Why sex education often gets vulva anatomy wrong. The cultural and educational gaps that leave many people confused about how pleasure actually works in these bodies. How partners can support deeper pleasure. Simple mindset shifts that help couples slow down and explore arousal more intentionally. Resources: drivedesire.com expandherorgasmtonight.com 1:1 coaching with Cass & Em. Book a FREE strategy sesh HERE! About Susan Bratton: Susan Bratton is a globally recognized intimacy expert, educator, and advocate for pleasure-positive sexuality. She has spent decades teaching people how to expand their understanding of arousal, connection, and pleasure in long-term relationships. Susan is known for translating complex sexual health concepts into practical, approachable tools that help couples experience more intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in their sex lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Vulvas and vaginas aren't complicated or mysterious, we've just never been properly taught how to pleasure them. Until now. In this episode, we’re joined by Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, educator, and longtime advocate for pleasure-forward sex education. Together we break down the anatomy of female arousal, the full erectile tissue system in the vulva, and why so many people misunderstand what our bodies actually need to experience deep pleasure. We talk about why arousal takes time, how the body physically changes during sexual stimulation, and why expanding our understanding of pleasure anatomy can completely transform the sexual experience for both partners. If you’ve ever wondered why foreplay matters so much, why stimulation can feel different depending on arousal levels, or how to create more pleasure in partnered sex, this conversation is for you Honey Bun. We Cover: The vulva’s erectile tissue system. Why arousal involves far more anatomy than just the clitoris and how engorgement changes sensation. How arousal physically changes the body. What actually happens to the vulva and vaginal tissues during sexual stimulation and why time and blood flow matter. Why many people with vulvas struggle to feel enough stimulation during sex. How misunderstandings about pleasure anatomy can lead to rushed arousal and less pleasurable experiences. The role of engorgement in pleasure. Why the body needs time and stimulation for tissues to swell and become more sensitive. How to build stronger arousal before penetration. Why extended stimulation and touch can dramatically change sensation and comfort. Understanding different pleasure pathways. How different types of stimulation activate different parts of the vulva and internal erectile tissue system. Why sex education often gets vulva anatomy wrong. The cultural and educational gaps that leave many people confused about how pleasure actually works in these bodies. How partners can support deeper pleasure. Simple mindset shifts that help couples slow down and explore arousal more intentionally. Resources: drivedesire.com expandherorgasmtonight.com 1:1 coaching with Cass & Em. Book a FREE strategy sesh HERE! About Susan Bratton: Susan Bratton is a globally recognized intimacy expert, educator, and advocate for pleasure-positive sexuality. She has spent decades teaching people how to expand their understanding of arousal, connection, and pleasure in long-term relationships. Susan is known for translating complex sexual health concepts into practical, approachable tools that help couples experience more intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in their sex lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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