26. The Only Way Out Is Through with Niki Kirby

What if the waiting isn’t a pause—but the point?In this episode of the Not Just Waiting Podcast, Reanna sits down with writer and entrepreneur Niki Kirby, author of The Garden of Exile: How to Flourish in a World That’s Not Your Home, for a rich conversation about formation, discomfort, and what it means to wait well in seasons that feel invisible or uncelebrated.Nikki shares honestly about the seasons that shaped her most—particularly the ones marked by suffering, uncertainty, and unmet expectations—and how God used those moments to deepen her roots and loosen her grip on comfort and control.Together, they explore:Why some of God’s deepest work happens in hidden, unglamorous seasonsHow discomfort can be a gift—not a failureWhat “breakthrough” really looks like when the only way out is throughThe difference between passive waiting and active, faithful stewardshipHow to discern when to rest and when to “paddle like crazy”Why ordinary days matter more than we thinkThis episode is for the woman who feels stuck, tired, or unsure what God is doing in the in‑between—and needs the reminder that formation often happens quietly, faithfully, and over time.Resources & Links:The Garden of Exile by Niki Kirby (pre‑order): NikiKirby.comThe Guide to Becoming — A Scripture-based reflection guide for seasons of waitingFollow Nikki :Instagram: @nikierskinekirby