26. 为什么直男都直得千篇一律？性别刻板印象的三个故事

在剪辑完准备写文稿的时候偶然发现了这首美国人Nancy R. Smith写在1973年的诗For Every Woman，和我们想表达的如出一辙。 For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong,there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable. For every woman who is tired of acting dumb,there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectation of “knowing everything.” For every woman who is tired of being called “an emotional female,”there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle. For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes,there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity. For every woman who is tired of being a sex object,there is a man who must worry about his potency. For every woman who feels “tied down” by her children,there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared parenthood. For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay,there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being. For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile,there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking. For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation,there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier. 性别刻板印象既斩男又斩女。何必呢？都放自己一马吧。 回到目娛樂節今日介绍： 01：01 第一个故事：传统印度家庭对强势印度姐姐的束缚 vs 进步印度家庭对她细腻老公的鼓励 04：30 为什么大家长式的男人要求严格的尊重？ 08：09 第二个故事：自强的菲律宾男同事无法得到父亲的肯定，屠龙少年成为恶龙，活成自己讨厌的样子 14：10 症结：担心选择太少，同时又害怕选择太多。因为没得选而苦恼，而一旦完全自由，无限的选项又让自己害怕到原地踏步。 16：52 我们对于这两种恐惧的选择和建议 22：01 第三个故事：大厂程序员希望少聘不合格的女工程师以免拖累团队工作效率，女工程师的稀少是因为先天因素吗？ 27：22 我们只想提供更多的“解题思路”，并不想直接影响你的想法和决定。 老陈：这样下去，不再讲998个故事我可能会摸不着头脑。 片头曲： Gold Coast Rhythm (Wallach Party) -- Justin Hurwitz 来自Babylon (2022) OST