26: Where Did Y'all Go?

In this episode, Peter rides a shotgun seat - Todd takes the bull by the horn. Topics range from compassion to parenting mishaps - through a lens of... as you may guess lived, raw, enduring struggle. Uncovered herein is a huge realization of how being part of this podcast has unearthed unlikely and surprising benefits in multiple ways. Related points: No stoplights and two post offices in Hartland Vermont. Communication is key and sets intention for all those involved. Lack thereof leaves gaps and places for confusion. It's hot in Arizona, but it is a dry heat. Sometimes the celebration of an event pales in contrast to attending the event itself, and in its entirety. Laundry rooms, although small, can hold large topics and host huge conversations. At the spot where words turn into emotion, or flirt right on that edge. This is the spot where being truly alive and present demands attention. Perspectives differ between every individual. What one person sees in us, oftentimes is something we are completely blind to ourselves. Frogging can be fun. Mental habit / action / tool examples: If you think you know something about an event you've never attended - try to remain aware of that fact - the assumptive nature of what you think you know, and how that may impact your presence or decisions. When a statement or message from someone triggers a sense of emotion in your body - listen closely and look for an opportunity to stretch and grow. It will be uncomfortable, even to look, but holds a wealth of education if you allow it in. Seek feedback and when it's given, look at it as a gift. Ask more questions than statements, as much as possible. Quotes / quips: "It's more important to be loving than to be right (in a marriage/relationship)." - Keith "Do I want to be looked at as the person that is right, or do I want to be looked at as the person who is caring?" Rando Mentions: University of Arizona Healthy resting heart rate.