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EPISODE · Feb 25, 2025 · 31 MIN

26: Why Your Partner seems 'Too Busy' and doesn’t make time for YOU (What do to)

from The Anxious To Secure PODCAST · host Jula - The Anxious To Secure Coach

Take my Free 3 MIN Attachment Style QUIZ Now. Why Your Partner SEEMS 'Too Busy' and doesn’t make time for you (WHAT do to) and you not feel like a priority? Been there "healed" that! You're giving it your ALL, but your partner seems more interested in... well, everything else? 🤔 Their phone 📱, video games 🎮, friends 👥 - while you're left wondering why a simple coffee date feels impossible to plan? ☕ Based on YOUR messages and DMs this week (thank you for sharing! 🙏), I knew we needed to talk about this. In today's Anxious to Secure PODCAST episode for everyone who wants to neal their anxious attachment style I'm sharing something that completely changed how I view "busy" partners (and honestly, it might surprise you). 🤯 we go deep into attachment theory, core wounds..not just about Anxious Attachment but also in understanding your Avoidants Partners style much deeper... Because that pit in your stomach when they choose PlayStation over quality time? I've been there, and what I discovered changed everything. ✨ If you're tired of: Feeling like an afterthought in their schedule ⏰ Getting the "boring" version while their friends get the fun side 😕 Watching them scroll on their phone while you crave connection 💔 ...then what I'm about to share might be exactly what you need to hear. 🎯 This isn't about making them change - it's about understanding what's really going on (hint: it has nothing to do with your worth! ) and how to feel secure even when they need space. 🦋 Join me to discover the FARE framework that transformed my relationship from anxiety to security in just 6 months. ⭐ Because you deserve to feel like a priority, without the constant overthinking. 💫 Love, Jula Your Anxious to Secure Relationship Coach for ambitious Overthinkers.    Attachment ✎ᝰ.Self-Study Vault 🫶🏻❤️‍🩹 (worksheets, guides, downloads, etc) 📢 ON SALE: 🖤 Attachment 101 Master Guide 🖤(👀 Anxious spin to Secure within)   🎧💌📖 FREE COURSE: How to stop overthinking in Your relationships  21 WAYS to download the 🙋🏼‍♀️21 WAYS to STOP Abandoning yourself  The Worry-Free Flow-Chart for Relationship Anxiety Self Esteem KIT to learn to be GOOD ENOUGH, lovable and worthy from within

Take my Free 3 MIN Attachment Style QUIZ Now. Why Your Partner SEEMS 'Too Busy' and doesn’t make time for you (WHAT do to) and you not feel like a priority? Been there "healed" that! You're giving it your ALL, but your partner seems more interested in... well, everything else? 🤔 Their phone 📱, video games 🎮, friends 👥 - while you're left wondering why a simple coffee date feels impossible to plan? ☕ Based on YOUR messages and DMs this week (thank you for sharing! 🙏), I knew we needed to talk about this. In today's Anxious to Secure PODCAST episode for everyone who wants to neal their anxious attachment style I'm sharing something that completely changed how I view "busy" partners (and honestly, it might surprise you). 🤯 we go deep into attachment theory, core wounds..not just about Anxious Attachment but also in understanding your Avoidants Partners style much deeper... Because that pit in your stomach when they choose PlayStation over quality time? I've been there, and what I discovered changed everything. ✨ If you're tired of: Feeling like an afterthought in their schedule ⏰ Getting the "boring" version while their friends get the fun side 😕 Watching them scroll on their phone while you crave connection 💔 ...then what I'm about to share might be exactly what you need to hear. 🎯 This isn't about making them change - it's about understanding what's really going on (hint: it has nothing to do with your worth! ) and how to feel secure even when they need space. 🦋 Join me to discover the FARE framework that transformed my relationship from anxiety to security in just 6 months. ⭐ Because you deserve to feel like a priority, without the constant overthinking. 💫 Love, Jula Your Anxious to Secure Relationship Coach for ambitious Overthinkers.    Attachment ✎ᝰ.Self-Study Vault 🫶🏻❤️‍🩹 (worksheets, guides, downloads, etc) 📢 ON SALE: 🖤 Attachment 101 Master Guide 🖤(👀 Anxious spin to Secure within)   🎧💌📖 FREE COURSE: How to stop overthinking in Your relationships  21 WAYS to download the 🙋🏼‍♀️21 WAYS to STOP Abandoning yourself  The Worry-Free Flow-Chart for Relationship Anxiety Self Esteem KIT to learn to be GOOD ENOUGH, lovable and worthy from within

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