265 - From FBI Burnout to 35 Days at Sea — One Veteran's Search for Purpose with Jere Hartman

Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). The US military does an incredible job of creating warriors and a horrible job of bringing them home. Jere Hartman lived that truth. After leaving the 75th Ranger Regiment, he chased the career ladder at the FBI, hit 240 pounds, and looked in the mirror at a miserable man achieving goals that weren't his. So he quit, thru-hiked the Appalachian Trail, and then said yes to something drastic: rowing 2,800 miles across the Pacific Ocean with a crew of veterans. Thirty-five days at sea. No way out. No way to hide. Out there, he found what had been missing since the day he took off the uniform.In this conversation, you'll learn:Why almost every warrior culture in history had a ritual for bringing soldiers home — and what happens when ours doesn'tThe night Jere thought he was having a heart attack 300 miles from shore, and how surrendering to it changed how he expresses himself foreverWhy the brotherhood on the boat formed between men who couldn't stand each other on land — and what that reveals about how male bonds are actually builtThe formula behind Courser Racing's model: hardship, brotherhood, no exitJere's honest minimum dose for the 38-year-old with a mortgage and three kids who can't row an ocean — and why it starts with something you loved 20 years agoWhat happened when one crew member reached Hawaii, proposed to his wife again, and rebuilt his relationship with his kids and grandkidsFollow the crew as they train to cross the Atlantic — La Gomera, Spain to Antigua, 3,000 miles, departing December 2027.Resources Mentioned:Courser Racing — https://www.courserracing.orgCourser Racing Weekend & Week-Long Rows — https://www.courserracing.org/servicesThe Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter — https://www.amazon.com/Comfort-Crisis-Embrace-Discomfort-Reclaim/dp/0593138762World's Toughest Row (the race Jere's crew completed) — https://www.worldstoughestrow.comAppalachian Trail Conservancy — https://appalachiantrail.org Hearing the call? We're here. https://mkpusa.org BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the show